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Old 09-28-2011, 06:52 AM
 
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Also--and ladies, please correct me if your opinion is different--in my experience, men who are really good kissers are also really good at the other. Patient, exploratory, responsive, perceptive, passionate, enjoys what he's doing, obviously turned on. Men who don't like kissing or aren't good kissers aren't that great at the other, at least from what I've experienced.

And I still pick kissing.
I think men who are good with their mouth...are good with their mouth.
hahaha!

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I like the goodbye morning kiss. It should be quick and dry but you always go in for a couple more. And then that puppydog goodbye face....makes me wish the end of the day came sooner.
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Old 09-28-2011, 06:55 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I vote for good kissing over oral, as well.

I just read an article saying that men see kissing as a means to an end (i.e. kissing will lead to sex,) while women gauge kissing as a compatibility measure.

The article: Kissing is all about the chemistry - USATODAY.com
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Old 09-28-2011, 07:14 AM
 
Location: Florida
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I can't believe all the women who claim kissing is better than great oral.

I've never seen a girl climax from kissing alone.

I never knew kissing was so important to women. Glad I've been told I'm a good kisser -- on both sets of lips!

Last edited by JustJulia; 09-28-2011 at 07:35 AM.. Reason: PG13, please
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Old 09-28-2011, 07:16 AM
 
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I can't believe all the women who claim kissing is better than great oral.

I've never seen a girl climax from kissing alone....
It's not about the climax. I think that's where the confusion (and difference) lies for men.
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Old 09-28-2011, 07:19 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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I vote for good kissing over oral, as well.

I just read an article saying that men see kissing as a means to an end (i.e. kissing will lead to sex,) while women gauge kissing as a compatibility measure.

The article: Kissing is all about the chemistry - USATODAY.com
There is alot of truth to that. If I'm really into a girl my kissing is going to be alot better, in terms of frequency and quality and vice versa if I'm not really into her.
So women that say "He wasn't a good kisser" there is a chance maybe he just wasn't into you. Then again he might be a bad kisser
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Old 09-28-2011, 09:53 AM
 
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It's not about the climax. I think that's where the confusion (and difference) lies for men.

Agree with you again.

I know for most men, the climax is the goal. For me...sure it's great if I have one..bonus! If not, it's really the journey. I really don't mind at all if there is no orgasm for me.
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Old 09-28-2011, 09:57 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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It depends on what's happening. If it's just a make out session and medium. If we're banging like animals then fast..

Haven't had a good makeout in a LONG time

(runs to cold shower)
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Old 09-28-2011, 09:58 AM
 
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Agree with you again.

I know for most men, the climax is the goal. For me...sure it's great if I have one..bonus! If not, it's really the journey. I really don't mind at all if there is no orgasm for me.
Really?

I'm all about the big C. The journey is nice but I want to get to a destination thanks
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Old 09-28-2011, 10:08 AM
 
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Really?

I'm all about the big C. The journey is nice but I want to get to a destination thanks

I guess I'm an odd duck...I want HIM to get to his destination...but it doesn't bother me if I don't get there.
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Old 09-28-2011, 10:10 AM
 
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What's your favorite kind of kiss?
Slow, sllllow, sllllllllllllow.
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