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I'm actually confident because I know what I want. The only truly unconfident ones are the ones putting me down because they feel threatened by me. There have been people in this thread that disagreed, but didn't put me down.
Why would anyone feel threatened by you? You're a random person on an internet forum, just like everyone else.
I wasn't the one that went on the attack, accusing the OP of having low self-esteem and not having the ability to land hot women.
I think as long as you're attracted to the women you date and consider them "hot" in their own way, who cares if they are or aren't society's standardized level of hottness.
I think as long as you're attracted to the women you date and consider them "hot" in their own way, who cares if they are or aren't society's standardized level of hottness.
It's all relative anyway.
One man's hot is another man's cold.
Very true. Looks aren't everything. I learned that at an early age.
How come hot girls compete against each other for looks and cause drama? You don't see that in men.
The bolded parts you do see in men. Just because they don't normally compete over looks doesn't mean they dont compete. They compete for other things that attract women, just like women compete over stuff that attracts men (looks).
Actually when I think about this, I usually go for average looking men, rather than the really "hot" ones. I just think that big egos are a huge turnoff for me; many times looks to kill come with an enormous ego. (And narcissism) Give me a regular guy, down to earth, nice personality, sense of humor & I'm happy. As far as the OP preferring average girls, he's actually got a valid point. The hot ones play the most games with men, and ultimately the guys get tired of it.
This is 100% true. If an average looking chick and a hot chick are together in a bar, ALWAYS approach the average one if you want to score with the hot one. Act like the hot one doesn't exist and she will find a way to get your attention.
You are right, it's all middle school games, and it is a shame the dating game has come to that. I blame the throngs of loser males out there who constantly genuflect to hot women and keep them on a perpetual pedestal.
Haha, right and the chumps will approach the hot one. The average one may try to c**k block.
I agree, you can be hot AND dorky. However, I think it's better to have more of the DORKY quality than the HOT quality. I see a lot of women who I could put into the 'hot' category and they seem uptight a lot of times. I'm not trying to generalize- I've known some really attractive women who were fun to be around- but it makes me sad to think that some people believe that their looks are all they have to go off of and forget that life is about having fun and being silly/dorky.
So hot girls will spend more time in front of the mirror looking pretty then the average?
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