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Old 10-11-2011, 06:42 PM
 
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I'm 27 male, I don't want to have a GF or have kids or get married, I'm not the sensitive, emotional type of guy you will ever see in public holding hands, cuddling, etc... That's not my style. I'm heterosexual but I don't want to be in a relationship because that's not what I desire, actually, it will only waste my time and energy, being forced in a commitment I don't want to be, plus I save money by not being in a relationship and I don't have to worry about drama like breaking up, cheating, arguments, I don't need another person to make myself feel complete, I'm my own person, I feel confident enough about myself instead of seeking someone to rely on, I have freedom to do what I want when I want without being interrogated with questions asked by some GF, sex is also not important to me, I rather spend my time reading or doing something more productive with my time, I don't want to be a follower and procreate, I see no point of having kids, why would I want to be someone's personal slave? I won't put myself in that situation. Anyone else here who feels the same or similar?
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Old 10-11-2011, 06:46 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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I'm 27 male, I don't want to have a GF or have kids or get married, I'm not the sensitive, emotional type of guy you will ever see in public holding hands, cuddling, etc... That's not my style. I'm heterosexual but I don't want to be in a relationship because that's not what I desire, actually, it will only waste my time and energy, being forced in a commitment I don't want to be, plus I save money by not being in a relationship and I don't have to worry about drama like breaking up, cheating, arguments, I don't need another person to make myself feel complete, I'm my own person, I feel confident enough about myself instead of seeking someone to rely on, I have freedom to do what I want when I want without being interrogated with questions asked by some GF, sex is also not important to me, I rather spend my time reading or doing something more productive with my time, I don't want to be a follower and procreate, I see no point of having kids, why would I want to be someone's personal slave? I won't put myself in that situation. Anyone else here who feels the same or similar?
Good for you.
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Old 10-11-2011, 06:48 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Sounds like you have some deep seated issues you might want to delve into to free you from your flat affect.

There are therapists out there waiting to take your call
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Old 10-11-2011, 06:51 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Got it!
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Old 10-11-2011, 07:14 PM
 
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Erm. Yet you made a long post about how it's all just not important.

Gotcha...(nodding slowly)
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Old 10-11-2011, 07:16 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Gotcha...(nodding slowly)
Me, too. The second one today.
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Old 10-11-2011, 07:17 PM
 
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You do what you have to do.
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Old 10-11-2011, 07:18 PM
 
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If you're not into having a relationship, then what are you doing on the Relationship forum? I mean, I have no interest in stamp collecting, so you wouldn't find me on the Stamp Collecting forum. So by your presence here, you're really saying that you are indeed interested. Admit as much and move on.
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Old 10-11-2011, 07:19 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Here's another one for you: //www.city-data.com/forum/relat...-not-care.html

He's even more verbose!
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Old 10-11-2011, 07:22 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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If you're not into having a relationship, then what are you doing on the Relationship forum? I mean, I have no interest in stamp collecting, so you wouldn't find me on the Stamp Collecting forum. So by your presence here, you're really saying that you are indeed interested. Admit as much and move on.
yep

"methinks the lady doth protest too much".
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