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View Poll Results: How many of you make the first move on the dating websites?
Ron, I make the first move. I go after want I want! 6 25.00%
Ron, if he wants me he must come and get me. 5 20.83%
Ron, why do you create these dumb threads. Good grief. 5 20.83%
Ron, did you get dumped again? Is that why you're creating threads at 2:15am? 2 8.33%
Ron, if I wasn't married/taken, I have you for breakfast, lunch, dinner and my snacks. You're yummy! 1 4.17%
Ron, I'm a gold digger and I ain't messing with no broke %^&** 0 0%
Ron, how about those Green Bay Packers! 5 20.83%
Voters: 24. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 11-11-2011, 12:13 AM
 
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Don't like ladies.

Do you make the first move?

If you don't, why not? It's online, it should be easier for you.


Let's talk.


For the love of god, take the poll.

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Old 11-12-2011, 12:10 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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Oh, I know of at least one lady who made the first move on a dating website.

The move she made was toward me. Because, somehow, when we were on the same site, I kept coming up in her prospective matches but she never came up in mine, for some unknown reason.

Yep, she made the first move.

Three years later, we're still together, more deeply in love, and have a wonderful life together.
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Old 11-12-2011, 01:45 AM
 
Location: NW Indiana
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Hilarious poll, Ron.

Seriously, though, many times I (a female) have made the first move on dating sites. Some men have told me they very much appreciate it when a lady makes the first move.
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Old 11-12-2011, 02:09 PM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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I did and it worked! It took me a while to work up the guts to actually DO it...

But I did!
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Old 11-12-2011, 02:16 PM
 
Location: somewhere south of Canada
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I used to, but after getting zero responses I gave up.

I've had friends (and a few C-D folks) look at my profile and have been told there's nothing wrong with it. So I'm being passive now and waiting for guys to write to me first.



<waiting, waiting, waiting...>



And HOW 'BOUT THOSE GREEN BAY PACKERS! Yeah, Baby!!!!
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Old 11-12-2011, 03:23 PM
 
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WOW that's rare for a gal not to get any replies from making a contact.


Very rare.


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Originally Posted by Tropical Trouble View Post
I used to, but after getting zero responses I gave up.

I've had friends (and a few C-D folks) look at my profile and have been told there's nothing wrong with it. So I'm being passive now and waiting for guys to write to me first.



<waiting, waiting, waiting...>



And HOW 'BOUT THOSE GREEN BAY PACKERS! Yeah, Baby!!!!
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Old 11-12-2011, 03:33 PM
 
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LOL great poll.

A close female friend of mine is currently dating a guy whom she met on a dating website, and she told me it was her who made the first move. She took a look at his profile and she liked what she saw (the picture wasn't the deciding factor though, because she says he's physically average -and neither did his money matter, because she's been in relationships with guys who earned a lot less than she does, her being about to inherit a small but profitable business that she's already managing and all-).
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Old 11-12-2011, 04:21 PM
 
Location: SXSW
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Originally Posted by WhistlerMCMLV View Post
Oh, I know of at least one lady who made the first move on a dating website.

The move she made was toward me. Because, somehow, when we were on the same site, I kept coming up in her prospective matches but she never came up in mine, for some unknown reason.

Yep, she made the first move.

Three years later, we're still together, more deeply in love, and have a wonderful life together.
How did she make the first move?
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Old 11-12-2011, 06:07 PM
 
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How about those San Francisco 49ers!
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Old 11-12-2011, 09:35 PM
 
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How about those San Francisco 49ers!
They look pretty good.
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