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He loves blondes, more specifically Caucasians with blonde hair. If it's not blonde hair, it's Brunettes, "Red Heads" and any other 'safe', non-extreme color.
He is no different than the majority of the other Caucasian/white males. Although we have had our rough patches, he seems generally interested in me. I see him staring at me and one time when I caught him staring he turned away, although not fast enough for me to not see his face-reddening with embarrassment.
Yet, it seems as though if there were to be a white woman with the same interests, he'd go for her as opposed to me who is not white.I understand, it's just preferences.. Yet, sometimes I see him staring at me and it seems as though he is thinking about the racial differences we both ironically share..
I can't discuss this any further, as I am becoming somewhat upset. Hopefully you have the capability to know what else I was going to write in here and give me advice..
He loves blondes, more specifically Caucasians with blonde hair. If it's not blonde hair, it's Brunettes, "Red Heads" and any other 'safe', non-extreme color.
He is no different than the majority of the other Caucasian/white males. Although we have had our rough patches, he seems generally interested in me. I see him staring at me and one time when I caught him staring he turned away, although not fast enough for me to not see his face-reddening with embarrassment.
Yet, it seems as though if there were to be a white woman with the same interests, he'd go for her as opposed to me who is not white.I understand, it's just preferences.. Yet, sometimes I see him staring at me and it seems as though he is thinking about the racial differences we both ironically share..
I can't discuss this any further, as I am becoming somewhat upset. Hopefully you have the capability to know what else I was going to write in here and give me advice..
If he's a racist or cares about what society thinks it might. Why don't you just ask him?
He loves blondes, more specifically Caucasians with blonde hair. If it's not blonde hair, it's Brunettes, "Red Heads" and any other 'safe', non-extreme color.
He is no different than the majority of the other Caucasian/white males. Although we have had our rough patches, he seems generally interested in me. I see him staring at me and one time when I caught him staring he turned away, although not fast enough for me to not see his face-reddening with embarrassment.
Yet, it seems as though if there were to be a white woman with the same interests, he'd go for her as opposed to me who is not white.I understand, it's just preferences.. Yet, sometimes I see him staring at me and it seems as though he is thinking about the racial differences we both ironically share..
I can't discuss this any further, as I am becoming somewhat upset. Hopefully you have the capability to know what else I was going to write in here and give me advice..
What are you?
Men in general are less discriminating when it comes it comes to dating outside of their race. I'd say most white guys like Latinas, the majority will date Asians, and less will date black women. That's just a generalization from my life experience and the white men I've known.
I was just rejected by a white woman and I am not. I spent so much time with her, I couldn't see her race at the end.
But this is not how most people think, and I can't be sure that was the reason either. Just bite the bullet and go for it.
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If he's a racist or cares about what society thinks it might. Why don't you just ask him?
If she actually thinks we just have the 'capability to know what else' she's going to say, much less, can't even discuss it here where she's annonymous...
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I can't discuss this any further, as I am becoming somewhat upset. Hopefully you have the capability to know what else I was going to write in here and give me advice..
....I don't have high hopes of her being able to discuss it with him.
But then, you just never know. Appparently, she can read minds
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Yet, sometimes I see him staring at me and it seems as though he is thinking about the racial differences
I kid. Kind of. Truthfully, just ask him if he'd like to go to such and such an event with you. If he declines, it doesn't matter whether or not he's racist, does it? Next!
He loves blondes, more specifically Caucasians with blonde hair. If it's not blonde hair, it's Brunettes, "Red Heads" and any other 'safe', non-extreme color.
He is no different than the majority of the other Caucasian/white males. Although we have had our rough patches, he seems generally interested in me. I see him staring at me and one time when I caught him staring he turned away, although not fast enough for me to not see his face-reddening with embarrassment.
Yet, it seems as though if there were to be a white woman with the same interests, he'd go for her as opposed to me who is not white.I understand, it's just preferences.. Yet, sometimes I see him staring at me and it seems as though he is thinking about the racial differences we both ironically share..
I can't discuss this any further, as I am becoming somewhat upset. Hopefully you have the capability to know what else I was going to write in here and give me advice..
Appears you have him already figured out.
[maybe you should discuss the matter with him to see if you're right]
You might be surprised to find out that he finds other women outside of his race attractive. Why don't you try spending some time with him and see if there are any mutual sparks between you? Don't allow your assumptions to stop you, you might be missing out.
If she actually thinks we just have the 'capability to know what else' she's going to say, much less, can't even discuss it here where she's annonymous.......I don't have high hopes of her being able to discuss it with him.
But then, you just never know. Appparently, she can read minds
I kid. Kind of. Truthfully, just ask him if he'd like to go to such and such an event with you. If he declines, it doesn't matter whether or not he's racist, does it? Next!
This is will definitely expedite matters but, like you said, we already know that's not going to happen.
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I see him staring at me and one time when I caught him staring he turned away, although not fast enough for me to not see his face-reddening with embarrassment.
He's been checking you out for a while now, and yet he still reddens with embarrassment when caught. IMO, you might not be showing any subtle signs that indicate you're comfortable, or even probably flattered by his stares.
Perhaps you could consider smiling at him the next time you catch him checking you out.
Yes a racist. You act like people can't be closeted racist.
Oh. I see what you mean. My bad.
Quite honestly, it's VERY hard for me to see how someone could not be attracted to an ENTIRE race of people.
I myself, have preferences, but I have met beautiful women of every race, both inside and out.
I really don't understand why people would absolutely limit themselves to one race.
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