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Old 11-04-2011, 01:35 PM
 
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I'm at the gym, or wherever, and a cute girl comes up to me and says "Hi! How's it going?"

I've never had this happen. Now, this is a situation where she is interested, and not already a friend or something - you get the idea.

Has any guy had this happen?
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Old 11-04-2011, 01:39 PM
 
Location: Not Nowhere
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Yes.
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Old 11-04-2011, 01:48 PM
 
Location: Grosse Ile Michigan
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I used to ride my bike to a gym across the street from my office. I woudl shower and then go to work. I kept my suits in a locker at the club. Since I arrived early, I woudl leave early, work out and then ride home. This was a pricey club frequented mostly by lawyers, doctors and successful businessmen. When I went over to the club are 4:30 there was always a dozen os so very nice looking women who were posing and preening each other while waiting for the men to arrive. They would even spray on a touch of fake sweat here and there. They all said hello to me with interest at first until they learned that i was just a student clerk. Then they woudl use me for opinions "Do I look sexier like this, or sitting over here? Does a little sweat on my forehead look cute or gross? Can you set that big weight over near me I think it looks bad to have that sitting next to me."

Unfortunately that club closed, but if you can find a simlar club, just rent a Corvette, buy a fancy suit go to Mexico and get a "Rolex" for $40 and arrive around 5:30. Your fantasy will be fulfilled over and over.
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Old 11-04-2011, 01:53 PM
 
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I'm at the gym, or wherever, and a cute girl comes up to me and says "Hi! How's it going?"

I've never had this happen. Now, this is a situation where she is interested, and not already a friend or something - you get the idea.

Has any guy had this happen?
Why would a cute girl come up to you and say that?

If she's interested in you she will approach differently. She will be indirect.

If she's not interested in you, she will not approach at all.
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Old 11-04-2011, 01:57 PM
 
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WOW!..you must lead a very sheltered life if something as simple as that..( I believe it happens a lot) is your ultimate fantasy....I hope your fantasy comes true..it's not at all unusual.
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Old 11-04-2011, 02:53 PM
 
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Why would a cute girl come up to you and say that?

If she's interested in you she will approach differently. She will be indirect.

If she's not interested in you, she will not approach at all.
I will keep this in mind - thanks! And so I gather she would simply make a comment about something, hoping that I would engage in conversation?
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Old 11-04-2011, 03:09 PM
 
Location: NY
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A woman who is interested in you may not be direct, but likely will be dropping all kinds of subtle hints. Looks, body language, maybe trying to strike up more subtle conversation...

If you think a woman may be interested, you can always go to them and say "Hi, how's it going."
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Old 11-04-2011, 03:14 PM
 
Location: NY
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Thought I would add an example (although it wasn't from upon first meeting).

I had developed a friendship with a woman online, and we eventually met for coffee as friends. On our second "meet" we went to a local bookstore, then a movie. We knew we liked each other, but had sort of agreed that we wanted to just be friends for various reasons (too long to get into here).

So we are at the movie, and I was being dense, engrossed in the movie. She had grabbed my hand, then cuddled up to my arm, put her head on my shoulder. (BTW, we were the ONLY people in the theatre too). I was not paying close attention, intently watching the film.

Silly me, these were sort of subtle signs. Subtle anyway, compared to what came next. She got tired of being subtle, grabbed my cheek, turned my head towards hers and kissed me.

I didn't miss that sign! I also cannot really tell you about the rest of the movie.

My point is really that women could be throwing you all kinds of signs, you just have to be paying attention.
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Old 11-04-2011, 03:23 PM
 
Location: Bellingham, WA
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I can see this being a fantasy, since I've never seen it happen in real life, at a gym or anywhere.
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Old 11-04-2011, 03:29 PM
 
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This for you is the "ultimate fantasy?" Really? WoW, lmfao
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