How do unemployed men get women? (dating, attractive, personality, ugly)

[bson1257]

Since its pretty much a fact that women don't like guys who don't have a good paying job, with the terrible economy does that mean that a lot of guys are just completely screwed?

[Luv2byte]

My brother is unemployed, getting odd job thru temp agency, just started dating a girl in September. Just need to find one that sees potential & personality, not money.

[westhou]

Be attractive and it won't matter. Fat and ugly guys don't stand a chance if they don't have a job.

[ImCurlybelle]

Be proactive, motivated, driven, inspired, a go-getter and anything but lazy ...

[zentropa]

How about being funny, engaging, honest, sexy, and in possession of a plan?

[yankeegirl313]

Giant penis!

[Ron.]

The same way employed men get women.

Stop defining yourself by your job. It's not who you are it's what you do. I'm sure there is more to you than your job title?

[Ron.]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

Giant penis!

That doesn't always work

[Lamplight]

What about those of us who are unemployed but don't need a job (at least not for a while)?

[*Sixy*]

It isn't the money or the job, at least not when someone is looking for person of quality and character.

I know this is how some men define themselves and it's a blow to the ego if they can't be "the provider" but it's really just foolish to think you only have value if you have money.

If he is charismatic, confident, charming, compassionate, intelligent, has a good sense of humor, driven, passionate about something, affectionate and can hold a conversation, has interests other than his paycheck ...well that's what is important! If that all comes wrapped up in an attractive package well then that's a bonus.

In recent years there are a lot of underemployed and unemployed people. That doesn't define WHO they are...all it does is define a declining economy.

People looking for a mate need to be more concerned with the WHO than the WHAT.