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Old 11-12-2011, 06:09 PM
 
Location: Cornelius, NC
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I'm dating this woman. She is sort of shy and I can tell. She blushes when I tell her she looks great. We have kissed and I have fondled her hair so far. We were sitting in bed together and she had her legs swinging. At one point she was bumping her knees on my ****. I'm sure she wants sex but do you think I'll get it in this case? We've been on 2 dates so far. She was waving her hair too.
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Old 11-12-2011, 06:11 PM
 
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I'm dating this woman. She is sort of shy and I can tell. She blushes when I tell her she looks great. We have kissed and I have fondled her hair so far. We were sitting in bed together and she had her legs swinging. At one point she was bumping her knees on my ****. I'm sure she wants sex but do you think I'll get it in this case? We've been on 2 dates so far.
2 dates is all it takes to get her in bed?

If you want it, make the move and find out.
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Old 11-12-2011, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Cornelius, NC
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So what? Every woman is different. It's not like we're even really doing anything anyway. I'm just kissing and fondling her hair.
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Old 11-12-2011, 06:17 PM
 
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Is that how it works these days? Yikes! I twirl my hair and swing my legs all the time...I hope I'm not sending out mixed signals.

Look...you've only kissed so far. I think you need to have a conversation before you hop in the sack with her about birth control and STD's, expectations of the relationship AND whether or not she is interested in having sex. Are you Friends with Benefits? Are you exclusive? Is this just casual?
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Old 11-12-2011, 06:20 PM
 
Location: Cornelius, NC
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I'm talking more about her bumping her knees on my ****.
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Old 11-12-2011, 06:40 PM
 
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Okay, and my response still stands...have a discussion with her about it.
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Old 11-13-2011, 03:32 AM
 
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Why would y'all be in bed together if there was no expectation of sex or at least sexual play? Do you have no chairs in your house?
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Old 11-13-2011, 03:45 AM
 
Location: Southern California
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i'm talking more about her bumping her knees on my **** .
ouch!!
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Old 11-13-2011, 03:57 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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I'm presuming you've been responsible adults and have had a discussion about contraception before you even think about having sex?


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I'm dating this woman. She is sort of shy and I can tell. She blushes when I tell her she looks great. We have kissed and I have fondled her hair so far. We were sitting in bed together and she had her legs swinging. At one point she was bumping her knees on my ****. I'm sure she wants sex but do you think I'll get it in this case? We've been on 2 dates so far. She was waving her hair too.
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Old 11-13-2011, 05:14 AM
 
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Get to second base, first. If she goes for that, ask her if she wants to see your meat. She will answer...
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