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What are your thoughts,
if a guy *just* started dating a girl (like one or two dates) and she had to leave the country for a month (and time difference so less opportunity for online communication also), would he lose interest or would it have any negative effect?
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I can't believe how fast a frickin' year goes by. A month is nothing. If I liked him enough, I have plenty to keep me busy, so, no it wouldn't hinder anything for me.
thanks guys,
just want to clarify this is like, one or two dates, so not even a relationship and they don't even know each other that well yet, no commitment or exclusivity. They just met, the guy asked the girl out and they had dinner/drinks once or twice nothing more. Is that enough for the guy not to lose interest if he doesn't see or talk to her for a month?
thanks guys,
just want to clarify this is like, one or two dates, so not even a relationship and they don't even know each other that well yet, no commitment or exclusivity. They just met, the guy asked the girl out and they had dinner/drinks once or twice nothing more. Is that enough for the guy not to lose interest if he doesn't see or talk to her for a month?
It depends on what I had going on for a month. I wouldn't be sitting around by the phone. I also wouldn't go out of my way to chase her off. However if I did meet somebody else, I would pursue something with them. I wouldn't want to feel like I was on layaway.
A couple of dates does not equal a relationship...the alleged couple cannot possibly know each other. It is possible that they send email when they can but I wouldn't expect too much other than that. The girl might meet someone else herself.
If he likes you, he'll ask you out when you get back. A month isn't a very long time at all. It's four weekends. If he meets someone else in the meantime, he wasn't that into you to begin with.
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