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Old 11-27-2011, 02:43 PM
 
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I found out that my boyfriend of 6 years has been cheating on me for the whole 6 years we've been together and he has the nerve to beg for forgiveness, Telling me how much he loves me and wants to make the relationship work. I am so hurt and confused, What would you do ?
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Old 11-27-2011, 02:45 PM
 
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Did you ever make it clear to be exclusive under these 6 years?
I hear that's something one has to do when dating in America...
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Old 11-27-2011, 02:49 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Did you ever make it clear to be exclusive under these 6 years?
I hear that's something one has to do when dating in America...
Good one! Yeah, according to some, nothing goes without saying... not even after 6 years... If they haven't had THE talk, all bets are off!
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Old 11-27-2011, 02:52 PM
 
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Well I wouldn't be confused...that's for sure....Personally I'd give him his walking papers...if he's cheated the whole time you've been together, I'd say the only reason he's sorry is because he got caught....he may love you...but he's shown you that he can't be trusted...I guess you could stay with him, and share him with others....or you could move on and find someone who will be faithful to you.
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Old 11-27-2011, 02:52 PM
 
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i must say i kinda look up to your BF. i mean it takes real ingenuity to keep a girl around 6 yrs while cheating on her the entire time (assuming here that you weren't overlooking any blatantly obvious signs). can you tell us how he did it? i'm planning on cheating on this girl i've started seeing so i could use some pointers. thanks.
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Old 11-27-2011, 02:53 PM
 
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I found out that my boyfriend of 6 years has been cheating on me for the whole 6 years we've been together and he has the nerve to beg for forgiveness, Telling me how much he loves me and wants to make the relationship work. I am so hurt and confused, What would you do ?
What is there to be confused about? Are you kidding me? You better kick his @s$ to the curb. And go and get tested IMMEDIATELY. Some of you kill me with this silly emotional nonsense. Someone sas not only broken a commitment but put your life in danger by sleeping around and then coming back to your bed...and you are here asking silly questions..... please get rid of the fool and pray you get a clean bill of health from the doc...


Good luck and sorry to hear about your situation.... my posts may sound harsh at times but i don't mean to be mean...i just get mad at people for not seeing what they should be seeing that's all.
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Old 11-27-2011, 02:55 PM
 
Location: New Hampshire
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"I am so hurt and confused, What would you do ?"

Leave and NEVER look back. Anything else would be a waste of my precious time.

He deceived you for 6 years. Isn't that enough for you?

Have some self-respect!
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Old 11-27-2011, 03:41 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Yeah...he is only sorry because he got busted! Move on!
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Old 11-27-2011, 04:10 PM
 
Location: Florida
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He is a cheater, he WILL do it again. You have two choices, either stay and accept his behavior or leave.
His words mean nothing, his actions speak for themselves.

To me, there is nothing to think about...dump him....he is a loser.
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Old 11-27-2011, 04:16 PM
 
Location: Louisiana
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I found out that my boyfriend of 6 years has been cheating on me for the whole 6 years we've been together and he has the nerve to beg for forgiveness, Telling me how much he loves me and wants to make the relationship work. I am so hurt and confused, What would you do ?
Tell him, "I can't do nothing for you son". and kick him to the curb.

If he cheated on you for the whole time you were together, what makes you think he really loves you?
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