Guy asked me out and then blows me off? (date, call, advice)

[KickAssArmyChick]

"I don't get why guys go to the trouble of asking out a girl and even asking what she wants to do if he's just going to blow her off! LOL "

It is an ego thing... Validation almost.

"He says he does but he's been busy, ect, ect. and was texting and seemed barely even knew I was in the car."

Actions dear....NOT WORDS. His actions say it all.


PS: Move on.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by MIKEETC

Agree with this. Give him one more chance to shift the car to "DRIVE".

I don't see any reason for any more chances.

[MIKEETC]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

I don't see any reason for any more chances.

I figure she doesn't have to really 'do' anything. The ball is in his court.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by MIKEETC

I figure she doesn't have to really 'do' anything. The ball is in his court.

No. If somebody treats you this way, it's not worth wasting your time on him even if the initiative later is his.

[MIKEETC]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

No. If somebody treats you this way, it's not worth wasting your time on him even if the initiative later is his.

How about one more little chance?!?

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by MIKEETC

How about one more little chance?!?

Then she might get a little pregnant.

[AONE]

get him off your radar. He is a waste of your time. Show no interest in him what so ever.

[Jiganatree]

Did you come across as being a bit on the ditzy side or a little bit too clingy?
He probably just likes you as a friend and not much else. Just find someone else if you are looking for a date.

[Soda120]

Let him make the next move, but don't wait on that.
He may not move.

[lottamoxie]

I wouldn't ask him out at all....do not pursue. You gave him an answer and he didn't follow up. His loss!

Mr flaky mcdatingflakerson should not be rewarded for flakoid behavior.