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Old 12-13-2011, 12:23 AM
 
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hi,

i am married for almost 5yrs now. we had sex on our 2nd wedding day and then i didn't. if i want to have sex also, my husband doesn't want to. it is not only sex, if i kiss him also he gets angry and shouts at me.

i once confronted him for kissing and hugging and he told that he is stressed and he is busy. he is always fighting with me and says he is getting by fighting and stays away from me.

a month ago i asked him directly to sleep with me but he will think about it and didnt say anything other than that.

i am worried and puzzled because i love him a lot.

do any of you have any idea. please help.
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Old 12-13-2011, 01:12 AM
 
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Did this just start recently? Don't mean to sound insensitive but have you let your self go?
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Old 12-13-2011, 01:27 AM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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He is a gay. He has three men on the go.
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Old 12-13-2011, 06:54 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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You've been married five years and have only had sexual intercourse once? Why do you stay married?
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Old 12-13-2011, 07:11 AM
 
Location: Tri-State Area
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When was the last time you and your husband visited a medical doctor - specifically, a urologist for him and an GYN for you? 5 years of marriage with only one session is the signs of a very unhealthy relationship. You both may have severe hormonal problems OR your husband is in the CLOSET!!

I'm wondering if this post is for real here or are we being played.
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Old 12-13-2011, 07:28 AM
 
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Sounds like he doesn't like you much which is awful. Is this a marriage of convenience?
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Old 12-13-2011, 10:19 AM
 
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I can't figure why you even got married?....maybe you could tell us what it is about him that makes you "love him a lot"....it must be something great, I'm sure.
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Old 12-13-2011, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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You need the help of a professional, not opinions on an internet forum.

Seek out a marriage counselor asap.
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Old 12-13-2011, 10:45 AM
 
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Your husband shouts at you if you kiss him? No offence but your husband is an a**
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Old 12-13-2011, 10:56 AM
 
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hi,

i am married for almost 5yrs now. we had sex on our 2nd wedding day and then i didn't. if i want to have sex also, my husband doesn't want to. it is not only sex, if i kiss him also he gets angry and shouts at me.

i once confronted him for kissing and hugging and he told that he is stressed and he is busy. he is always fighting with me and says he is getting by fighting and stays away from me.

a month ago i asked him directly to sleep with me but he will think about it and didnt say anything other than that.

i am worried and puzzled because i love him a lot.

do any of you have any idea. please help.
Based on your writing, I have to ask this: was this marriage arranged?

Why did you two get married?
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