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Old 12-18-2011, 09:07 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Thanks Chamataka, I guess nothing good or bad lasts forever. Thats a relief after the last few years. Not out of the woods yet, as I still need a job.
"The biggest fear is fear itself" - Franklin Delano Roosevelt

"The worst thing that can happen is that I will be dead tomorrow, but it will be written that I died fighting" - Scipio Africanus on the eve of Zama

Sex up your resume now and land a job. Then you can take her to better places
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Old 12-18-2011, 09:22 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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"The biggest fear is fear itself" - Franklin Delano Roosevelt

"The worst thing that can happen is that I will be dead tomorrow, but it will be written that I died fighting" - Scipio Africanus on the eve of Zama

Sex up your resume now and land a job. Then you can take her to better places
Umm, I don't think you understand. My resume is sexed up. My career field (financial services) is a disaster. I have incredible qualifications, but its gotten to the point where I'm going to have to change career fields. At 43, how do I do that???
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Old 12-18-2011, 09:30 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Umm, I don't think you understand. My resume is sexed up. My career field (financial services) is a disaster. I have incredible qualifications, but its gotten to the point where I'm going to have to change career fields. At 43, how do I do that???
Ok, it's not you. It's your domain, which I have to admit is seriously shredded at the moment. Did you look up healthcare lines of business which often need financial services guys to run their finances. They will not pay as much, but it will be a good place to hide until banking and financials heal. Maybe you already tried it, but I'm just saying.

To make matters worse, MF Global is snowballing into a major crisis. Who is affected by their tentacles is not clear yet and will explode next year. I would suggest wild things like looking at the mid-West. I don't know, I don't know your situation and flexibility.

I hope you find something soon.
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Old 12-18-2011, 09:40 PM
 
Location: Pa
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It's not what you know but who you know.
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Old 12-18-2011, 10:06 PM
 
Location: Oklahoma City, OK
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Ok, it's not you. It's your domain, which I have to admit is seriously shredded at the moment. Did you look up healthcare lines of business which often need financial services guys to run their finances. They will not pay as much, but it will be a good place to hide until banking and financials heal. Maybe you already tried it, but I'm just saying.

To make matters worse, MF Global is snowballing into a major crisis. Who is affected by their tentacles is not clear yet and will explode next year. I would suggest wild things like looking at the mid-West. I don't know, I don't know your situation and flexibility.

I hope you find something soon.

Yep, absolutely right. MF Global is yet another huge issue, not to mention Europe. Our economy is fragile as it is. This has been the slowest economic recovery in history. I've considered the Mid West. I'm looking everywhere. I'd have to let my house go, but I don't care, as its the house I was married in. The bank can have it.
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Old 12-18-2011, 10:42 PM
 
Location: Boca Raton, FL
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Smile Really happy for you....keep it going

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Yeah spinx, many of those stories were mine. Been a hard 3-4 years for me.



Thanks Chamataka, I guess nothing good or bad lasts forever. Thats a relief after the last few years. Not out of the woods yet, as I still need a job.
I've read some of your sadder posts and I'm just happy for you!
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Old 12-19-2011, 06:57 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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Nice to hear some success stories once in a while, now send some of that luck my way
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Old 12-19-2011, 07:14 AM
 
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I've been out of the dating game for so long that I'm not sure where to go or what to plan anymore. I was with my ex-wife for 7 years and divorced for the last 2 years. I've barely dated. But I have a last minute date with a woman I met online tonight. I don't want to spend a lot of money because I'm not working, hence another reason I haven't tried to date. But I do think this one has potential. Should I just stick to coffee or do something else?

I am in Atlanta, so anyone from here please chime in.
Yes. I would stick to the brief coffee shop chat for the first meeting. Who knows, you may not even like her after the first meeting.

If all goes well you can do a park day. Picnic basket with some snacks (crackers, fruit, yogart) Have fun talking on a blanket and enjoying the surroundings. That shouldn't cost you too much.
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Old 12-19-2011, 07:28 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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Personally, I'm not too keen on going for coffee on a first date. First dates are supposed to be glamorous, memorable, and magical.
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Coffee dates are something to do when talking with a random woman and want to continue the conversation immediatley that day.
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Yes. I would stick to the brief coffee shop chat for the first meeting. Who knows, you may not even like her after the first meeting.
I'm glad the date went well and that things look hopeful for a continuation. Have to say, though, that a couple of posters (two quoted above) got it all wrong in my opinion by not reading the OP properly. Funnily enough the only one who got it right, flung in his post obviously without reading any of the responses (third quoted).

This wasn't an arranged date with someone the OP had already met. He said, "...I have a last minute date with a woman I met online tonight." This scenario has been hashed out in countless threads and the consensus seems to run over 90% that when meeting a blind date off an internet dating site, the sensible thing to do is meet in a public place for the proverbial coffee and take it from there ...
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Old 12-19-2011, 08:32 AM
 
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I'm glad the date went well and that things look hopeful for a continuation. Have to say, though, that a couple of posters (two quoted above) got it all wrong in my opinion by not reading the OP properly. Funnily enough the only one who got it right, flung in his post obviously without reading any of the responses (third quoted).

This wasn't an arranged date with someone the OP had already met. He said, "...I have a last minute date with a woman I met online tonight." This scenario has been hashed out in countless threads and the consensus seems to run over 90% that when meeting a blind date off an internet dating site, the sensible thing to do is meet in a public place for the proverbial coffee and take it from there ...
Oh you

Let's just agree to disagree.

Happy holidays everyone!
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