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I've been out of the dating game for so long that I'm not sure where to go or what to plan anymore. I was with my ex-wife for 7 years and divorced for the last 2 years. I've barely dated. But I have a last minute date with a woman I met online tonight. I don't want to spend a lot of money because I'm not working, hence another reason I haven't tried to date. But I do think this one has potential. Should I just stick to coffee or do something else?
I am in Atlanta, so anyone from here please chime in.
Tell her you guys can start off with some low-profile, low-pressure rendez-vous and get her to a starbucks or some local authentic coffee shop, and then follow it up with a walk in the park or hanging out and around. That shud get you no more than 20 bucks
Don't spend too much unless you are damn sure she is worth it
Tell her you guys can start off with some low-profile, low-pressure rendez-vous and get her to a starbucks or some local authentic coffee shop, and then follow it up with a walk in the park or hanging out and around. That shud get you no more than 20 bucks
Don't spend too much unless you are damn sure she is worth it
I wish I could follow my own advice. Somehow my bills escalate That's what I'm saying, people, and that holds true to all you advice givers. It's ALWAYS easy to advice other people than to follow it ourselves.
Personally, I'm not too keen on going for coffee on a first date. First dates are supposed to be glamorous, memorable, and magical. Some appropriate form of dressing up should be involved, to maximize the chance of both parties making a great first impression. With that said, I'd be plenty satisfied with dinner followed by some sort of activity (movie, mini-golf, show, etc).
For a guy dating on a budget, I'd suggest you take her out for a meal, and if you like her enough during the date, then you can discuss seeing a movie or something later, otherwise, just end the date after the meal.
Tell her you guys can start off with some low-profile, low-pressure rendez-vous and get her to a starbucks or some local authentic coffee shop, and then follow it up with a walk in the park or hanging out and around. That shud get you no more than 20 bucks
Don't spend too much unless you are damn sure she is worth it
I kind of agree with AC here. If it's the first time you are going to meet keep it simple. Walk in the park, coffee, museum, maybe lunch...something where you can get to know eachother in an informal setting.
Personally, I'm not too keen on going for coffee on a first date. First dates are supposed to be glamorous, memorable, and magical. Some appropriate form of dressing up should be involved, to maximize the chance of both parties making a great first impression.
I admit, I've been out of the dating scene for quite some time, but for me, that would be too much pressure and effort for someone I've never met in person.
I admit, I've been out of the dating scene for quite some time, but for me, that would be too much pressure and effort for someone I've never met in person.
I agree. Looks like it will be dinner of some sort. We were going to meet this afternoon, but she sort of changed the plan (strike 1, lol). So looks like dinner or drinks and I'm hoping not too much cash.
I admit, I've been out of the dating scene for quite some time, but for me, that would be too much pressure and effort for someone I've never met in person.
That's probably true. But going for coffee? Yes it is efficient and hassle free, but there is no fun in that. I could be the minority though, apparently a lot of girls do prefer the coffee idea.
That's probably true. But going for coffee? Yes it is efficient and hassle free, but there is no fun in that. I could be the minority though, apparently a lot of girls do prefer the coffee idea.
Well I like coffee...but if the meet up was going well I wouldn't want to kiss someone with coffee breath! Although way back when, I never kissed on the first date anyway.
I think some kind of exhibit or museum would be a happy medium. If it's going well it could always segway into lunch or dinner afterwards.
I agree. Looks like it will be dinner of some sort. We were going to meet this afternoon, but she sort of changed the plan (strike 1, lol). So looks like dinner or drinks and I'm hoping not too much cash.
I think you are approaching this wrong. Dates should not be a burden, financially or otherwise. Have fun on them! Do something that both you and her would enjoy, so even if things don't work out, it's still a fun night out with plenty of giggles and laughs.
Good luck.
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That's what I'm saying, people, and that holds true to all you advice givers. It's ALWAYS easy to advice other people than to follow it ourselves.
