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Old 12-31-2011, 07:02 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Antlered Chamataka View Post
WOW, he's a CFO? That's big money!

Instead of divulging further info, you can talk to a legal person and get out of this.

Madam, get out of this and kick his putain back to France. He will catch another female after you and victimize them all. Rectify the situation and help your fellow sisters. I'm not kidding.
Total agree. Get out now!
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Old 12-31-2011, 07:04 PM
 
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Originally Posted by lovesMountains;
So why do you stay?
She wants EU citizenship. Apparently it's worth all this mess.
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Old 12-31-2011, 07:06 PM
 
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She said she's leaving in April. That's only 4 months away. It's not like the guy is threatening her life. I think she's smart to plan.
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Old 12-31-2011, 07:12 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Deja Vu Again;
I have a consult with a woman who has written books on verbal abuse (on Tues)... My husband just lacks affection, is aloof most of the time, tells me it's all about me (this means it's all about HIM)... here is an example of the things he does and says: See below:

By the way, these are ALL examples of verbal abuse via talking to professionals and reading books.


It's always about YOU YOU YOU.
On Facebook again?
Talking to your lovers?
Shut the f*uck up
I asked you to do one thing today and you screwed it up
I've told you a million times
How many times do I have to tell you?
You are irrational
You are selfish
You never think about me, it's like your are the only one in this relationship
Stop blaming everyone else/others - he will interrupt me during arguing and keep saying this over and over......
You NEVER listen
Only care about yourself
That's your perception… (will say this over and over in one argument)
Locks me out of house/hotel
You never let me talk
You're the expert
If he loses something, it's my fault, either I put it somewhere, threw it away etc. Then if he finds it, doesn't apologize for blaming me.
What will you do if his abuse turns physical? Or should I say, when it does? I realize your desire for citizenship but I would rather contribute as much as possible towards retirement in the US than put up with this shiet.
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Old 12-31-2011, 07:43 PM
 
Location: Western Europe
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I'm french and we're not all that bad. I promise! Sorry but your husband is a real connard!! I don't know nothing about immigration but i think it's quite easy. French is a hard language to learn and it takes years to speak it properly!
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Old 12-31-2011, 08:10 PM
 
Location: In The Thin Air
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He is French right? Ask him to surrender.
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Old 01-01-2012, 08:10 AM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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I have a consult with a woman who has written books on verbal abuse (on Tues)... My husband just lacks affection, is aloof most of the time, tells me it's all about me (this means it's all about HIM)... here is an example of the things he does and says: See below:
What will this woman say you don't already know?? Coping skills, deflecting the verbal abuse? Please let me know.
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Old 01-01-2012, 08:27 AM
 
Location: The Present
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They are all from Paris.....
Just remember in the future

eastern france > western france

although you can easily travel between both in two-three hours, I still found it to be a big difference personally.
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Old 01-01-2012, 09:27 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I take it back. I take it back. I'm being unfair on Marquis de Jacquesass

He wanted American residence. She wanted moolah, EU citizenship and healthcare.

It's a perfectly symbiotic, sea anemone hermit crab business contract. As in any contract, complications do crop up.

Endure Apply lubricants. Run the bus to the next stop.
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Old 01-02-2012, 09:18 AM
 
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I take it back. I take it back. I'm being unfair on Marquis de Jacquesass

He wanted American residence. She wanted moolah, EU citizenship and healthcare.

It's a perfectly symbiotic, sea anemone hermit crab business contract. As in any contract, complications do crop up.

Endure Apply lubricants. Run the bus to the next stop.
We do not know his motives 100% because he is not the one posting.

However - she CLEARLY didn't marry him for his 'moolah'. The guy had just lost his job AND she signed a prenup. So where do you get this BS from?

Ya know - for someone who has made an artform out of sabotaging his own relationships, you sure do make a lot of ASSumptions about other people's!
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