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Old 12-29-2011, 06:30 PM
 
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Most recognise that dating is not needed, it's just an accessory of life, and something our modern popular culture puts forward.

Should people with poor looks, no prospects, no personality, etc. just accept that dating is not for them? After all, nobody needs to date.
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Old 12-29-2011, 06:45 PM
 
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Some people are just comfortable alone.

Nothing wrong with it...it's just what it is.

I don't think you should be forced into a mold of society to date or to get married. We all are different and if one person chooses to be happy alone then it's no different than if one chooses to be married or date.

Problem is we like to push our way of thinking on others instead of respecting others choices. It's a shame.
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Old 12-29-2011, 06:48 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Most recognise that dating is not needed, it's just an accessory of life, and something our modern popular culture puts forward.

Should people with poor looks, no prospects, no personality, etc. just accept that dating is not for them? After all, nobody needs to date.
They are not only dating, but mating and having bunch of kids!!!
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Old 12-29-2011, 07:10 PM
 
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Most recognise that dating is not needed, it's just an accessory of life, and something our modern popular culture puts forward.

Should people with poor looks, no prospects, no personality, etc. just accept that dating is not for them? After all, nobody needs to date.
Everyone, and I mean everyone, can have a partner at any point in life if they wish. Whether that's through dating or friendship or an arranged marriage, I don't know.

It all depends on what a person desires and if their thoughts align with that desire.

If a person wants to date or find a partner, regardless of other circumstances, if they so wish to have it happen and if they think positive thoughts about it and visualize it and continue to offer a positive approach to the idea, then it will happen.

It's not rocket science Luckily. If you don't want to end up alone, you won't. If you don't care for dating, then don't do it. Simple.
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