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Old 01-08-2012, 01:32 PM
 
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I never thought about this before I saw an episode of Oprah where she discussed not wanting to use soap that anyone else had used and that she always put out a new bar for house guests. When I was married we shared the shower and soap. For house guests, I just left the soap in the bathroom from one guest to another.

How do you feel about using a bar of soap for bathing that someone else has used?
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Old 01-08-2012, 01:45 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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I never thought about this before I saw an episode of Oprah where she discussed not wanting to use soap that anyone else had used and that she always put out a new bar for house guests. When I was married we shared the shower and soap. For house guests, I just left the soap in the bathroom from one guest to another.

How do you feel about using a bar of soap for bathing that someone else has used?
Prefer to have separate soap, Personally. Bottled body wash is different and I think that is OK to share.
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Old 01-08-2012, 01:45 PM
 
Location: Mammoth Lakes, CA
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I've always shared the soap with my husband and have never given it a second thought. I can't imagine anyone being married and not wanting to use the same soap as their spouse or regarding this as an issue. What kind of mindset is that? I would imagine billions more germs are passed on through kissing or sex than by sharing an innocuous bar of soap!
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Old 01-08-2012, 01:48 PM
 
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Liquid soap with the pump,then no worries.
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Old 01-08-2012, 01:52 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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I would never use bar soap that a stranger used, but the wife kids and I have never given it a second thought.
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Old 01-08-2012, 01:53 PM
 
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At home, my husband and I share soap only with each other because no one uses the master bathroom but us.

The soaps in the other bathrooms are for guests; sometimes we use them to wash our hands, if we happen to be in that bathroom. I change those soaps only when they are half used up, not with every new guest.

If I'm staying at someone else's home, I'm not opposed to using their soap. It's a given that I know them pretty well if I'm taking a shower in their house. I just lather up the bar of soap really well and rinse it off before I use it. Of course if there's an option to use a shower gel, I'd use that instead.
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Old 01-08-2012, 01:53 PM
 
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When I lived with my parents we shared the same soap, but I don't share my bodywash with anyone, but I don't have a SO atm so that could change.
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Old 01-08-2012, 01:55 PM
 
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Liquid soap with the pump,then no worries.
Same here.

When it's a bar of soap it's usually mine only as he doesn't like bars.

Our house guests don't use our (en suite) bathroom, so they have their own soap.

I'm referring to hand soap only btw. Shower gel/body wash: I have mine, he has his (we like different smells), house guests have a couple to choose from. No bars.

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Old 01-08-2012, 01:56 PM
 
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I don't think I've ever used the same soap as anyone with the exception of hand soap. I've used bottled shower gel for about 10 years, though, so I guess that makes a difference.
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Old 01-08-2012, 01:56 PM
 
Location: Utah
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I never thought about this before I saw an episode of Oprah where she discussed not wanting to use soap that anyone else had used and that she always put out a new bar for house guests. When I was married we shared the shower and soap. For house guests, I just left the soap in the bathroom from one guest to another.

How do you feel about using a bar of soap for bathing that someone else has used?
I have my own special bathroom and I never share my personal use items.

I also make sure that guests have their own personal items.
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