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Old 02-14-2012, 02:44 PM
 
Location: Houston
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Depends on hotness.
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Old 02-14-2012, 02:49 PM
 
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Been there (unintentionally) and done that. Had to get rid of her. Couldnt believe someone so beautiful and well put together was so vein and materialistic.
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Old 02-14-2012, 02:52 PM
 
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Been there (unintentionally) and done that. Had to get rid of her. Couldnt believe someone so beautiful and well put together was so vein and materialistic.
if a girl is hot and her personality is whack and shes materialistic, i'd rather have a less attractive more down to earth girl that would be more appreciative of simple things that i do for her
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Old 02-14-2012, 02:56 PM
 
Location: Homeless
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Someone that always had to have/wear expensive clothing.. tons of jewelry.. needed to be taken out to fancy restaurants or bars/clubs?


NO! Been there done it would NEVER do it again!!! I don't care how hott she is!
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Old 02-14-2012, 02:57 PM
 
Location: On the road
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feel free to elaborate
Well, wining and dining some high-priced hooker is what it would be like.
What are you gonna do? Feed her high-priced food, and buy her play pretties, just to get in her pants? And then what is that going to lead to? You gonna marry the bimbo, and spend your life feeding her and keeping her in jewels.

Must be some dame.

You'd better be rich to start with 'cause by the time you work hard enough to make all the money you need to keep her happy, she's going to get bored and run off with some guy she met in one of those clubs while you were working your butt off to buy her next trinket.

Thanks, but no thanks. I like the ones who like you when you're poor.
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Old 02-14-2012, 03:00 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Life should not be about "stuff." Someone like this, Male or female would drain a persons time, energy and money like a vampire cause they are so focused on what they "get' from the relationship as opposed to an equal partnership, And forgoing simple things like a bottle of wine and just curled up together on the couch watching a movie. The small moments are not even 'small" when it is shared between 2 people with true love and affection for another.
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Old 02-14-2012, 03:06 PM
 
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if a girl is hot and her personality is whack and shes materialistic, i'd rather have a less attractive more down to earth girl that would be more appreciative of simple things that i do for her
oh no, the personality was often very sweet its just that at that point in my life, i was still trying to establish myself and here comes this lady that was more interested in Gucci, Prada...and whatever else women waste money on..with no direction of where she was going in life. She'd go out on a shopping spree and spend thousands meanwhile, there were still brand new clothes with price tags on it; from a few months ago that were yet to be worn in her closet. This was just one of the many annoying things (to me) that she did. I just got bored with the whole situation.

Looking back, she was sweet as can be and actually tried to change her ways for me but it just didnt work out and I'm glad!
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Old 02-14-2012, 04:05 PM
 
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sounds like it may of been hard to break up with her at first but that it was the ultimate decision
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Old 02-14-2012, 04:13 PM
 
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Someone that always had to have/wear expensive clothing.. tons of jewelry.. needed to be taken out to fancy restaurants or bars/clubs?
No. I don't think I'll be able to make her happy.
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Old 02-15-2012, 08:01 AM
 
Location: NY
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Someone that always had to have/wear expensive clothing.. tons of jewelry.. needed to be taken out to fancy restaurants or bars/clubs?
No I wouldn't date her, and it has nothing to do with money or finances. We would not have anything in common, as I do not live a lifestyle of expensive labels, being flashy, or going out all the time.

This woman just would not be a good match for me.
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