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So anyways, on the morning of Valintine's Day,
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So I drew up a silly little card with a funny cartoon character that said "I love you lots...Happy Valintine's Day."
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The next day I walked up to her and asked her if she got my card. She gave me the most evil look that I have ever seen and would not talk to me. She has been acting that way for the last couple of weeks. I can't even say hi to her without her giving me a dirty look and walking right past me.
I can't think of anything that I did to upset her. I'm not a creepy looking stalker or anything like that. Why would a girl act this way?
You spelled Valentine wrong.
[kidding - ask her how she's doing and see how it goes]
Oh man...if some **** treats you like crap of a misspelling...
Who cares if she is gay or not. She is just a flat out ******* if that is the case.
Guess what...my s.o. step mom misspelled his name accidentally on a a recent birthday card. But because we are all NORMALish we just laughed about it. Now its a running joke and he spelled her name wrong on this years card for her. LOL
**** those drama *******...
They don't know how to have fun. They just know how to drain the crap out of most everyone around them.
Either way, just play it off like it was nothing and act like it was light hearted.. make her the jerk for being so serious about it and then stay away from a girl who reacts like that!
Their ego cannot handle that she doesn't want them, so she must be a lesbo. I have heard it a million times.
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Originally Posted by bellakin123
LOL..oh, I know. I guess I was being more rhetorical . But I've heard them all..."she must be gay"..."maybe she's really a man"..."she can't handle me"...
I have no idea whether or not she is gay. I didn't bring it up as a way to stroke my ego. I think she is very attractive but several of my co-workers truely believe that I offended her because they don't think that she is straight. I'm just looking at all of the possibilities because I don't want situations like this to happen anymore. I've gotten lots of great feedback but none of it will do me any good if I leave out details of the situation. But your sarcastic rep comments were really helpful.
I Love You Lots struck me as weird considering you haven't even dated, but then in the context of a Valentine's Day card, it can be viewed as cute and silly. Her reaction seems extreme too. She could at least explain herself instead of acting so weird. Well, now that I've used the word "weird" in connection with both of you, maybe you're destined to be a couple.
I have no idea whether or not she is gay. I didn't bring it up as a way to stroke my ego. I think she is very attractive but several of my co-workers truely believe that I offended her because they don't think that she is straight. I'm just trying to look at all of the possibilities because I'm trying to make sure that situations like this don't happen anymore. I've gotten lots of great feedback but none of it will do me any good if I'm leaving out the details of the situation. But your sarcastic rep comments were really helpful.
If you thought she was gay or could've been gay, your coworkers are saying she 'might be gay' you sure wasted a lot of time. You never said anything about her possibly being gay in the OP....My rep comment was basically the same thing I said in here: just because she doesn't want you doesn't mean she's gay. But hey whatever...do you!
If she was gay, why would her friend try to set her up with you? Surely her friend would know the truth, or at least have some evidence that she was straight before trying to set you up, like, having dated a man before.
I think the gay theory should be eliminated, which leaves the "weirdo" "clingy/pushy" and "not-very-bright" theories still in play.
I've been working in a grocery store deli for several months. I've had a huge crush on one of the cashiers. Every time I saw her we got along great. We both have a dry sense of humor and we seem to have really compatable personalities.
So anyways, on the morning of Valintine's Day, her best friend said that she could try to set me up with her. I was about to go home, and the girl that I had a crush on had not arrived to work yet. So I drew up a silly little card with a funny cartoon character that said "I love you lots...Happy Valintine's Day." Her friend said that she would give it to her as soon as she arrived to work.
The next day I walked up to her and asked her if she got my card. She gave me the most evil look that I have ever seen and would not talk to me. She has been acting that way for the last couple of weeks. I can't even say hi to her without her giving me a dirty look and walking right past me.
I can't think of anything that I did to upset her. I'm not a creepy looking stalker or anything like that. Why would a girl act this way?
I would leave this alone. Too many people place harassment charges in the work place. You were in the friend zone. Don't bother her anymore.
Your problem was getting the best friend involved. Or, letting her involve herself.
Exactly.......you should have given it to her yourself....had you done so...she probably would have reacted much differently...but instead of your feelings being between you and her...you've included others...and that always puts a different spin on things.
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. But I've heard them all..."she must be gay"..."maybe she's really a man"..."she can't handle me"...
