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Few months back I had a situation where the guy basically told me Mod cut: inappropriate language off and he was done with our friendship. He said he was done and was moving on for 2012. It was a tumultuous friendship to begin with ..him being cool and then disappearing cause he found me annoying. I bounced and deleted all contact-cell #. email, FB everything. I was hurt but i moved on. It's two months into the new year and who do i get a text from saying "wassup". I never understand this. If i'm such a bad friend and I'm a "pest" why keep returning. I have not responded and I won't but it always puzzles me. Is this normal for men to do this or just a**holes? I thought we were D-O-N-E....we've never had any kind of sexual relationship so its not like he's getting anything out of it.What gives with this??
Last edited by PJSaturn; 02-29-2012 at 09:02 AM..
Reason: Changed thread title: language.
It doesn't sound like your friend is very self aware. He may not realize his own personality faults and only focuses on those of others and may have believed he could "do better" -- then realized he actually couldn't and now he's calling you again.
I think its wise for you not to return his messages. He may do this again and again.
Don't respond to his text and don't give this fool another thought. Whatever this guy's motive for texting you is, I'm certain it won't benefit you in the least.
It doesn't sound like your friend is very self aware. He may not realize his own personality faults and only focuses on those of others and may have believed he could "do better" -- then realized he actually couldn't and now he's calling you again.
I think its wise for you not to return his messages. He may do this again and again.
He's either a manic-depressive or he just likes to jerk people around.
You seem young in age, if not in maturity. The sooner you realize that there are some people who are not worth your time, the better. If someone does not make you feel good about yourself, then you really don't want to be around them. You'll be happier for it.
I would reply reminding him of the situation and then tell him to fork off.
My guess is he is hoping you have forgotten about what was said and intends to charm his way back in your life without apologizing or acknowledgment of what he done.
Few months back I had a situation where the guy basically told me Mod cut: inappropriate language off and he was done with our friendship. He said he was done and was moving on for 2012. It was a tumultuous friendship to begin with ..him being cool and then disappearing cause he found me annoying. I bounced and deleted all contact-cell #. email, FB everything. I was hurt but i moved on. It's two months into the new year and who do i get a text from saying "wassup". I never understand this. If i'm such a bad friend and I'm a "pest" why keep returning. I have not responded and I won't but it always puzzles me. Is this normal for men to do this or just a**holes? I thought we were D-O-N-E....we've never had any kind of sexual relationship so its not like he's getting anything out of it.What gives with this??
Not sure what the guys exact problem is, but trust me, he's got one.
I would not look back - move on for you own good, and potentially your safety.
Few months back I had a situation where the guy basically told me Mod cut: inappropriate language off and he was done with our friendship. He said he was done and was moving on for 2012. It was a tumultuous friendship to begin with ..him being cool and then disappearing cause he found me annoying
Perhaps treating you poorly was turning his crank. <shrug>
If you go back for this expect more of the same in the future
with him.
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saying "wassup". I never understand this. If i'm such a bad friend and I'm a "pest" why keep returning. I have not responded and I won't but it always puzzles me. Is this normal for men to do this or just a**holes? I thought we were D-O-N-E....we've never had any kind of sexual relationship so its not like he's getting anything out of it.What gives with this??
