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Old 03-05-2012, 08:20 PM
 
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about how i was and relationships and kids, which i dont have. we were really close friends for a few years then had a fight over nothing. so finally i emailed to say sorry and she avoids that but asks about my relationships and kids in a vague way. ive always had some interest but didnt want to upset the friendship. any opinions?
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Old 03-05-2012, 08:24 PM
 
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uh?? Sorry, but I don't understand your post.
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Old 03-05-2012, 08:29 PM
 
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ok, someone i dated several years ago, asked about my relationships and kids, like if i have them now. so that was mostly what they were wanting to know. im wondering how i should take that
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Old 03-05-2012, 08:35 PM
 
Location: North NJ by way of Brooklyn, NY
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It's a standard question with someone you haven't spoken to in a while. I wouldn't read too much into it unless she elaborates and says something along the lines of "Oh, so you don't have anyone?" Then you can read into it.
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Old 03-05-2012, 08:35 PM
 
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ok, someone i dated several years ago, asked about my relationships and kids, like if i have them now. so that was mostly what they were wanting to know. im wondering how i should take that
Don't take it any more than her simply wondering. If it goes further than that, maybe.. but just from that question it's really nothing more than a simple question. That's a pretty standard question.
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Old 03-05-2012, 08:52 PM
 
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Don't take it any more than her simply wondering. If it goes further than that, maybe.. but just from that question it's really nothing more than a simple question. That's a pretty standard question.


i see. this is how it was stated... "how are things with you overal..relationship, kids, etc." i avoided relationship stuff earlier
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Old 03-06-2012, 07:38 AM
 
Location: NY
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Sounds like someone just trying to reconnect, and ask some questions to see what is happening in your life.
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Old 03-06-2012, 07:39 AM
 
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Take it as she was trying to be friendly and asking simple questions, nothing more, nothing less and see where the flow goes if it goes anywhere.
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Old 03-06-2012, 07:59 AM
 
Location: Arizona
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She's just trying to find out what is going on in your life. Are you dating? Do you have kids? Pretty normal questions from someone you haven't spoken to in a long time. Don't read so much into it.
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Old 03-06-2012, 11:57 AM
 
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Just say, "I've never gotten over you" and see what she says. That would do the trick.
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