When to call (Christian, girl, college, calling)

[intelfan11315]

Saw a cute girl today so I went up to her and turned out she was from a country I had visited before. We talked for a while and she offered me her phone number and said we she keep in contact.

Just wondering how long I should wait to call? I work 6 days a week so I'm usually pretty busy and this weekend by chance I have the night off and I'll be going out of state and then visiting my parents after that.. so I want to ask her out for this week.

Would it be weird for me to call tomorrow to ask her out for Saturday? Would I probably be better off just calling on Friday and hoping for last minute plans and seeing if she wants to come along?


This stuff is all crazy to me, if I had it my way I'd just call on Saturday and invite her out Saturday night :S

[mir86]

Call tonight if you want. who cares about time frame on these things?

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by burgler09

Saw a cute girl today so I went up to her and turned out she was from a country I had visited before.

Ha-ha, you and your foreigners! Don't try to be an as@ if you want to see her - call today.

[intelfan11315]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Ha-ha, you and your foreigners! Don't try to be an as@ if you want to see her - call today.

Hahaha I can't help it Sierra

Alright, well that makes me feel better. I will give her a call tomorrow then! I didn't want to come off as a creep.

[mir86]

Originally Posted by burgler09

Hahaha I can't help it Sierra

Alright, well that makes me feel better. I will give her a call tomorrow then! I didn't want to come off as a creep.

oh and another thing..spontaneity would work in your favor when you know her better..but not in the beginning of whatever this may be.

[intelfan11315]

Originally Posted by mir86

oh and another thing..spontaneity would work in your favor when you know her better..but not in the beginning of whatever this may be.

She's just a random girl really, I saw her and went up to her today. There's not really much to consider.. for all I know she will say no when I call.

I wouldn't say I'm trying to be spontaneous or anything, I'm just trying to fit it into my schedule

[mir86]

Originally Posted by burgler09

She's just a random girl really, I saw her and went up to her today. There's not really much to consider.. for all I know she will say no when I call.

I wouldn't say I'm trying to be spontaneous or anything, I'm just trying to fit it into my schedule

got it. well I consider anything last minute to be spontaneous.

[katykat01]

Call her tonight. It's not creepy. It's already Wednesday, so make plans with her before her schedule fills. You already have a full schedule, so you're assuming she'll still be available when you are if you wait to call. Don't assume anything. Just call if you actually like her and want to see her again.

[strawberrykiki]

I'd be put off if a guy called on Saturday morning to ask me out for Saturday night. And I'd likely already be busy. I'd call now.

[bellakin123]

When I was about 20-21 years old and in college, a guy struck up a conversation with me at the bus stop. He looked like Christian Slater so I couldn't resist. He pulled the old, "hey, do you go to (such and such) school?" Long story short, the bus came and I gave him my number. After my classes I went straight to work. When I got home that evening, there was a message that some guy called lol...I wasn't expecting a call the same day. Do what you feel is right. If you didn't get to talk to her much when you saw her and you want to pick up the convo then go ahead and call her soon. Tell her you enjoyed talking and wanted to pick up where you left off, in a non-stalker kind of way :-)