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Seriously?? ^^^ Are you asking that seriously? Just in case you are, he** no! If your girl is doing that, you need to run from her. That is very unstable and juvenile. RUN away from her.
If she has done even one of those things, get the heck away from her now - not tomorrow, right now. Break? Oh yeah, completely off.
Any one of those things is a sign of a person who is quite unstable. What's next? cutting herself? you?
No way. Hasta la vista, sayonara. Here's a referral to the county mental health clinic.
This isnt normal for 2 year relationship for a female, if the guy asks for time to think over the relationship? (i havent ever told anyone that, its easier here for obvious reasons...)
This isnt normal for 2 year relationship for a female, if the guy asks for time to think over the relationship? (i havent ever told anyone that, its easier here for obvious reasons...)
This isn't normal for anyone, regardless of how long you've been together. She's nuts, man. You need to end it with her. She's crazy.
thank you all for your helpful comments and insight.......Its just hard for me to take it all in.... from the girls that I was with before during my building phase of life (ie. college, working crappy jobs, etc) they either cheated on me, or broke up with me for no reason. She is the first girl that I have been with that I can say has been 100% faithful and was there for me during some of the building phase (we started dating in my last year of college). To be honest.....I feel like I wont ever find a girl that would want to be with me..... like there is something wrong with me...
There IS something wrong with you -- you have low self esteem. You'll find someone better. Someone who doesn't try to manipulate you, guilt you, or force you to abandon your principles. You can do better than this!
This is kinda off subject from my original post but is it weird for a girl to cry uncontrollably, throw herself on the door so you cant leave, grab your legs while you are walking away and being dragged, and throw herself in front of your car after you say that you need a break from the relationship, NOT breakup, but just a break to think about things while you're leaving?
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Originally Posted by MindOnFire
To be honest.....I feel like I wont ever find a girl that would want to be with me..... like there is something wrong with me...
The reaction is a bit much, not so much the crying as everything else. However, she's probably thinking the same way you are and afraid you're going to break up with her. Her actions certainly aren't helping her any.
Even though relationships demand compromise; it's a little ridiculous to keep attempting to change someone's stance on a principle they are steadfast in maintaining. As you said, feeling so strongly for the issue, it will cause resentment if you broke down to a compromise. This is something she has to deal with or move along. Her childish antics shows you what you may be in for if there are future bumps in the road.
To me, this is not an issue about "traditional values", it's her independence that I'm questioning. If you were to compromise and move in with her, it can't be because she's desperate and has nowhere else to go, it has to be because you are both ready for that step.
This is kinda off subject from my original post but is it weird for a girl to cry uncontrollably, throw herself on the door so you cant leave, grab your legs while you are walking away and being dragged, and throw herself in front of your car after you say that you need a break from the relationship, NOT breakup, but just a break to think about things while you're leaving?
Yes...
I still don't understand why she can't be thankful that you let her live with your mom and insist on living with you. If I can't afford a single bedroom, I'd be SO glad to have a roof, any roof, over my head.
thank you all for your helpful comments and insight.......Its just hard for me to take it all in.... from the girls that I was with before during my building phase of life (ie. college, working crappy jobs, etc) they either cheated on me, or broke up with me for no reason. She is the first girl that I have been with that I can say has been 100% faithful and was there for me during some of the building phase (we started dating in my last year of college). To be honest.....I feel like I wont ever find a girl that would want to be with me..... like there is something wrong with me...
Oh dear, there is nothing wrong with you. From what I've read, you are caring (providing shelter for girlfriend), educated, rational, ambitious you got your act together, and you have good values. If you look half decent, you will find a girl so very easily...
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