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Old 04-19-2012, 10:38 PM
 
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Guys, when you see a girl that you find attractive and are interested in, what are some of the thoughts going through your head as you talk to her? do you think about nothing but sex or ponder if she's relationship material?

When I talk to a guy I obsess over what is going through his head, wondering how attractive he finds me.
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Old 04-19-2012, 10:41 PM
 
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In order:
Football
Beer
It's always sunny in Philadelphia
SI swimsuit issue
Steak

That is what is going through my head at any given moment.
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Old 04-19-2012, 10:47 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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That is what is going through my head at any given moment.
The question was, what's going through your head when you're talking to a woman you're interested in? Or is it still:
Football
Beer
SI Swimsuit Issue
Steak
etc.
?

If so, why are you talking to her? And maybe more importantly, ...
why should she bother talking to you?
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Old 04-19-2012, 10:56 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Guys, when you see a girl that you find attractive and are interested in, what are some of the thoughts going through your head as you talk to her? do you think about nothing but sex or ponder if she's relationship material?

When I talk to a guy I obsess over what is going through his head, wondering how attractive he finds me.
Nothing in particular.

[i'm just talking at that point]
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Old 04-19-2012, 11:01 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Nothing in particular.

[i'm just talking at that point]
nothing? even though you approached her because you found her attractive?
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Old 04-19-2012, 11:03 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Which head??
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Old 04-19-2012, 11:06 PM
 
Location: The Mitten
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Guys, when you see a girl that you find attractive and are interested in, what are some of the thoughts going through your head as you talk to her? do you think about nothing but sex or ponder if she's relationship material?

When I talk to a guy I obsess over what is going through his head, wondering how attractive he finds me.
For most guys, it's probably sex.

Then again, it depends on the situation, too. If you're at a bar; 'How can I get with this girl tonight?'

Usually I think differently at work and try to keep my mind on work stuff. But I'm only a man, I still think about women at work. Actually, for this example I can go further. Where I work, there are few attractive girls there. I usually listen to music while I'm working but I sometimes keep my headphones off to hear the girl talk in the next room. Usually I do it just to hear what she says; is she down to earth, what does she get angry at, what are her interests. These topics don't come up a lot; however, I do find a tidbit of information about her here and there.

That is a more long-term scenario. Short term; either the bar scene, first date, laundr-o-mat, other meeting places, what's your name and can I call you later?

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Old 04-19-2012, 11:09 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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nothing? even though you approached her because you found her attractive?
Yes.

[i approach with minimal expectations - it's a research mission so I just start talking]
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Old 04-19-2012, 11:17 PM
 
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Which head??
(drum riff, with cymbal) Ooooooooooooh ya beat me to it.
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Old 04-20-2012, 06:53 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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Guys, when you see a girl that you find attractive and are interested in, what are some of the thoughts going through your head as you talk to her? do you think about nothing but sex or ponder if she's relationship material?

When I talk to a guy I obsess over what is going through his head, wondering how attractive he finds me.
What she looks like naked.
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