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Old 06-11-2012, 10:37 AM
 
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Are they too remain friends with the rest of the circle?

Guy cheats with girl...girl insists on still hanging with the guys....

Should he not distance himself...??

Is the one cheated on wrong for not wanting anything to do with the "friends" who still associate with the OW?

I just think that's a complicated situation...and the cheater should have found someone not so closely associated with his daily lifestyle. cause the "friends" still party and hang out with the OW. You can't control who they are friends with...but if you are friends with her..then you are not friends with the one who was cheated on. Agree or Disagree?
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Old 06-11-2012, 02:47 PM
 
Location: Earth
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It's only sex. they're not going to wear out.
I have friends in my social group that I have sex with. There's nothing else going on except mutual scratching each other's itches.

What is OW?
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Old 06-11-2012, 03:23 PM
 
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Are they too remain friends with the rest of the circle?

Guy cheats with girl...girl insists on still hanging with the guys....

Should he not distance himself...??

Is the one cheated on wrong for not wanting anything to do with the "friends" who still associate with the OW?

I just think that's a complicated situation...and the cheater should have found someone not so closely associated with his daily lifestyle. cause the "friends" still party and hang out with the OW. You can't control who they are friends with...but if you are friends with her..then you are not friends with the one who was cheated on. Agree or Disagree?
I think they should all get over it.

Hey. Cheating happens. People have urges and are not perfect. Forgive and forget.
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Old 06-11-2012, 03:30 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I don't hang out with anyone who would hook up with their friend's girlfriend :/

That's not ok, but at the same time are you really gonna stop being friends with them? I'm friends with a girl who cheated on my old buddy, he's well over her and she has changed and is a nice girl.

If it is a marriage I think that's definitely worse.
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Old 06-12-2012, 05:58 PM
 
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Absoulutly wrong, wrong and wrong. Perhaps the three previous responders have not had very much time on the other side of a situation like this!
To remain "friends" with the Other Woman is disrespectful. And demeans the relationship you hopefully are still involved with and making every effort to repair and regain your partners trust and respect...
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