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Its common when you are with someone new and begin becoming intimate, for there to be plenty of spice.
As time goes on it sometimes can become less in frequency and spice.
What are keys to keeping the spice in your sex life?
I'm aware of many ways. But who knows, someone may raise something that might help someone, or something I'm not aware of.
Kink, fun locations, and stirring up a little bit of jealousy (admittedly not the best idea, but it can create some passion that's been missing for a long time). Nothing makes me want to please a chick more than knowing she could be getting it from somewhere else... I like to remind them of why they're with me
Its common when you are with someone new and begin becoming intimate, for there to be plenty of spice.
As time goes on it sometimes can become less in frequency and spice.
What are keys to keeping the spice in your sex life?
I'm aware of many ways. But who knows, someone may raise something that might help someone, or something I'm not aware of.
I think one of the main keys to keeping your sex life active and/or spicy is to make sure that other things and needs in the relationship are being taken care of. Both making efforts to show your spouse is your priority, not always casting them aside for kids, sports on TV, hobbies. Both making sure you're pulling your weight when it comes to the responsibilities and drudgeries of everyday life. Making sure you have intimacy and affection that isn't always sexual. I believe that making sure both partners are satisfied outside of the bedroom ensures they'll be happy in the bedroom.
I think one of the main keys to keeping your sex life active and/or spicy is to make sure that other things and needs in the relationship are being taken care of. Both making efforts to show your spouse is your priority, not always casting them aside for kids, sports on TV, hobbies. Both making sure you're pulling your weight when it comes to the responsibilities and drudgeries of everyday life. Making sure you have intimacy and affection that isn't always sexual. I believe that making sure both partners are satisfied outside of the bedroom ensures they'll be happy in the bedroom.
Yep agree
Alot easier said than done though, its an on going challenge
I completely agree with Liberty2011. Keeping the spice fresh starts well before you reach the bedroom - if you can get that far before ripping each other's clothes off. Focus on keeping your spouse happy, appreciated, and sexually fulfilled, and in most cases, they will do the same for you.
Being selfish, lazy, or critical is a sure way to kill the passion.
I completely agree with Liberty2011. Keeping the spice fresh starts well before you reach the bedroom - if you can get that far before ripping each other's clothes off. Focus on keeping your spouse happy, appreciated, and sexually fulfilled, and in most cases, they will do the same for you.
Being selfish, lazy, or critical is a sure way to kill the passion.
Selfish and lazy I'm certainly not.....critical is the one that may need a little work. Though its usually of the constructive kind and I have the best interests at heart.
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Respect each other is a big one!!
