first date question

[intelfan11315]

Better than what I had to deal with, I took a girl out for some drinks and we decided to get food. She chose the MOST expensive thing on the menu then didn't even eat half. Take your choice.

[007.5]

Originally Posted by caesarsgirl79

I think it's nice that she offered to pay. I probably wouldn't have. If a guy asks me out I think he should pay for a first date. I always offer to pay the tip. The last first date I went on the guy wouldn't even let me leave the tip. I have no problem with paying for dates, but if a guy asks me on a first date I think he should pay. It has nothing to do with the money.

In college, I offered to pay a couple times on a first date. I did that because I knew they didn't have a lot of money.

But WHY do you think the guy SHOULD pay on the first date with you , when its BOTH of you who want to explore the possibility of being compatible ? If you were by yourself, youd pay for your own meal ... so, do you believe there is some sort of entitlement as to why the woman should not pay for her own meal or at least offer to ?

[007.5]

Originally Posted by burgler09

Better than what I had to deal with, I took a girl out for some drinks and we decided to get food. She chose the MOST expensive thing on the menu then didn't even eat half. Take your choice.

Mail her the reciept and circle her part of the bill . Include a stamped return envelope for her extra added convenience .

[Ascension2012]

Originally Posted by le roi

attraction isn't a transaction, and you can't negotiate it. there's no sense in treating this game as anything more than that.

and then you grow up and realize that playing games is for immature people and want none of it.