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Old 07-08-2012, 03:12 PM
 
Location: southern california
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Old 07-08-2012, 03:21 PM
 
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Well, I am certainly am jealous. It's not just the male attention but the social power and influence that comes along with being lightskinned. People on FB say she looks like Barbie, they are always defending her and telling her because she's pretty she is owed the moon and the stars. It just seems that lightskin women are giving so much more affirmation and encouragement. I never got told any of those things by my family yet they are telling her all this. I don't see what makes her so much more deserving of it than me



It really is true. Men are always complaining that 'nice guys finish last' well so do nice girls. Most men are more interested in slutty/flashy women than classy/decent ones

You now have an idea of what it feels like being a short man. congratulations. i hope you enjoy your wonderful life with all of the attention you get from the opposite sex
 
Old 07-08-2012, 03:36 PM
 
Location: Georgia, on the Florida line, right above Tallahassee
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Men don't care about a woman's intelligence. all they care about is looks.
What a horribly wrong thing to believe. Sex can be over in 5 minutes or 5 hours. Eventually it's over, though. That sandwich you made for me... I finished it 5 minutes ago. I don't want TV. I'm looking at you. Words are formimg on my lips. I'm about to discuss our son's college education plans, and what you did at work or in your life today. I'm going to talk about hopes, dreams, fears and reality. We'll talk about the past, the present and the future.

If you honestly believe what you say, you will never find anything different. If the world is shallow as that, that's all it will be.

I can't imagine a life with a woman who was hot and stupid. What would we talk about?
"Wow, you got a new blonde weave!"
"Your butt is still as big as yetersday!!!! DAYAMNNNN GURL!!!!!

As you can see, this is a pretty boring conversation, if you had to do it daily for years.
 
Old 07-08-2012, 03:44 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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So I guess we can all just say any and everything that we want about Black women with absolutely no consequences. Black women are the "no racial threads" loophole.
 
Old 07-08-2012, 05:19 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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It really is true. Men are always complaining that 'nice guys finish last' well so do nice girls. Most men are more interested in slutty/flashy women than classy/decent ones
Go where the classy/decent guys are. Talk to some shy guys. Have you been waiting for guys to make the first move all this time? If so, make some first moves yourself. Be friendly and outgoing. Ignore the slutty/flashy women. Who wants to be with a guy who would fall for that? That's not your kind of guy. Keep your eye out for your kind of guy, and don't be shy.
 
Old 07-08-2012, 05:22 PM
 
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Have you been waiting for guys to make the first move all this time? If so, make some first moves yourself.

OMG I love you.
 
Old 07-08-2012, 05:24 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Go where the classy/decent guys are. Talk to some shy guys. Have you been waiting for guys to make the first move all this time? If so, make some first moves yourself. Be friendly and outgoing. Ignore the slutty/flashy women. Who wants to be with a guy who would fall for that? That's not your kind of guy. Keep your eye out for your kind of guy, and don't be shy.
Shy guys aren't my thing. Too wussy for me.

I believe a man should make the first move, I feel that it would be a testament to my womanhood that i always have to approach the man. I want the man to pursue and court me. Not the other way around. I want to feel like a woman and not the aggressor.
 
Old 07-08-2012, 05:25 PM
 
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Shy guys aren't my thing. Too wussy for me.

I believe a man should make the first move, I feel that it would be a testament to my womanhood that i always have to approach the man. I want the man to pursue and court me. Not the other way around. I want to feel like a woman and not the aggressor.

Continue to be alone then.
 
Old 07-08-2012, 05:33 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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I believe a man should make the first move, I want the man to pursue and court me. Not the other way around. I want to feel like a woman and not the aggressor.
I can totally relate. I used to think the same way. Then I realized I was missing out on some great guys. You could wind up waiting the rest of your life. Or you could make a few first moves, and maybe find happiness. There are no rules. The only important thing is what works. What gets you where you want to be.
 
Old 07-08-2012, 05:35 PM
 
Location: Midwest
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Continue to be alone then.
Perhaps the opposite sex should man up and go after what they want. I'm not a guy, I shouldn't have to approach a man and will not start anytime soon.
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