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Old 06-28-2008, 10:06 PM
 
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I'm happily married for 25 years, great wife, kids, job. But, I've always entertained the thought of a physical encounter with another guy. Anyone else? Or, am I just that odd?
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Old 06-28-2008, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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I'm happily married for 25 years, great wife, kids, job. But, I've always entertained the thought of a physical encounter with another guy. Anyone else? Or, am I just that odd?
PLEASE do your wife a favor and leave her first.

If I was married and my husband did that too me, I would cut his heart out and make him eat it.
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Old 06-28-2008, 10:10 PM
 
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I'm happily married for 25 years, great wife, kids, job. But, I've always entertained the thought of a physical encounter with another guy. Anyone else? Or, am I just that odd?
It's not odd at all. In fact, I wouldn't be surprised if it was quite common.
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Old 06-28-2008, 10:14 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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I'm happily married for 25 years, great wife, kids, job. But, I've always entertained the thought of a physical encounter with another guy. Anyone else? Or, am I just that odd?
I can tell ya one thing - it's extremely unlikely that any regular will let ya know! One day when you become addicted to C-D you'll probably regret posting this yourself.
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Old 06-28-2008, 10:25 PM
 
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OK ... has anybody had a friend tell them that they felt that way?
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:27 PM
 
Location: Texas
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this is SICK. i feel so sorry for your wife.
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:31 PM
 
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this is SICK. i feel so sorry for your wife.
It's not sick. It's perfectly natural. Stop putting other people down.
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:42 PM
 
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No, I have never heard this from a straight male.

I'm sure there are bi males who are married and would like to experiment.

Gay, straight or bi, the real bottom line here is that you're considering someone besides your spouse, and unless your spouse is on board with this, it doesn't matter whether it's a man or a woman or a poodle you're considering being with--you're still considering cheating.

So to me, it's a negative symptom in a marriage and it doesn't matter what sex it is that you're wishing you could experiment with.

Now on the other hand, as I said, if your wife is okay with an open marriage then that's a different story.
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:48 PM
 
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No, I have never heard this from a straight male.

I'm sure there are bi males who are married and would like to experiment.

Gay, straight or bi, the real bottom line here is that you're considering someone besides your spouse, and unless your spouse is on board with this, it doesn't matter whether it's a man or a woman or a poodle you're considering being with--you're still considering cheating.

So to me, it's a negative symptom in a marriage and it doesn't matter what sex it is that you're wishing you could experiment with.

Now on the other hand, as I said, if your wife is okay with an open marriage then that's a different story.
Ridiculous. He didn't say anything about cheating. He merely posed a question. I've noticed that you have a bad habit of assuming things that aren't said. You should check that.

At any rate, to the OP, do not listen to this drivel. There is nothing wrong with you asking a question, but watch out for the attacks from some people who will seek to put you in a box.
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Old 06-28-2008, 11:50 PM
 
Location: California
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I'm happily married for 25 years, great wife, kids, job. But, I've always entertained the thought of a physical encounter with another guy. Anyone else? Or, am I just that odd?
Nope not one time in my entire life have i had any desire to be with a man, you should seek counciling and tell your wife.
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