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.....right...... you must be one in a million. we all know women hate direct guys who speak their mind.
A guy can be direct without being like a used car salesman. I'm sure I'm not the only woman who'd react to "I just had to come over and talk to you" with an internal (or maybe external) eyeroll.
A guy can be direct without being like a used car salesman. I'm sure I'm not the only woman who'd react to "I just had to come over and talk to you" with an internal (or maybe external) eyeroll.
wouldnt talking about the weather or a puppy or what type of yogurt you like, be more like being a used car salesman, considering the reason for approach is something completely different and obvious to both parties? Saying that you find a woman attractive is the most honest and direct way to approach one, becasue its the truth. I do realize that some women may be uncomfortable with it, because they arent used to it or able to process it, but in real life it really does work like a charm.
Saying that you find a woman attractive is the most honest and direct way to approach one, becasue its the truth
meh i disagree
something genuinely funny is best. it's just fun and makes the conversation flow
it has to be genuinely funny, not some nervous crap that reveals a lack of confidence
compliments have their place, but personally i think there are better opening lines. some women are suspicious of compliments whereas everyone likes to laugh
that said i'm not don juan and most approaches will probably work sometimes if you're reasonably personable and confident and especially if you're attractive
EDIT - and I don't mean start telling jokes or be really goofy
Saying that you find a woman attractive is the most honest and direct way to approach one, becasue its the truth. I do realize that some women may be uncomfortable with it, because they arent used to it or able to process it, but in real life it really does work like a charm.
How would it work if some women are uncomfortable with it?
I always find it curious on this forum how, when women tell them what works, and what they like, some of the men deny it. "No, that's not what you like, let me tell you what you like. I know what you like better than you do." If women are speaking from experience, why would you not believe them?
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How would it work if some women are uncomfortable with it?
I always find it curious on this forum how, when women tell them what works, and what they like, some of the men deny it. "No, that's not what you like, let me tell you what you like." If women are speaking from experience, why would you not believe them?
Humans are funny creatures. We don't always want safe, predictable. Sometimes we don't acknowledge what we TRULY want either, men and women.
something genuinely funny is best. it's just fun and makes the conversation flow
it has to be genuinely funny, not some nervous crap that reveals a lack of confidence
compliments have their place, but personally i think there are better opening lines. some women are suspicious of compliments whereas everyone likes to laugh
although i'm proud of some of the stuff in the raping crazies thread
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