Need some womens opnion/advice. (kiss, friend, clothes, feelings)

[reed067]

When I was in middle school I wasn't too popular with the girls. I think we all went though a awkard stage. I wore glasses the size of my head cheesy arse grin.. well you get the point.
At 15 I came into my own with girls I had no problem having them notice me yet.. there was one problem I never was able to really tell if a women was really intrested in me or not. I still have that same problem today. Untill a women kissed me or reached for me I never really got it. At 44 I would like to notice them before. Can the women here offer me some advice on hwo to notice when a women is intrested?

[intelfan11315]

Originally Posted by reed067

When I was in middle school I wasn't too popular with the girls. I think we all went though a awkard stage. I wore glasses the size of my head cheesy arse grin.. well you get the point.
At 15 I came into my own with girls I had no problem having them notice me yet.. there was one problem I never was able to really tell if a women was really intrested in me or not. I still have that same problem today. Untill a women kissed me or reached for me I never really got it. At 44 I would like to notice them before. Can the women here offer me some advice on hwo to notice when a women is intrested?

My vote is for who gives a crap. Make a move, ask them out and don't even think about whether they're in to you or not. It flat out doesn't matter, they'll say yes or they'll say no.

People can sit here and give you all these "signs" but in the end they're useless. A girl who is friend zoning you could give off more of these "signs" than a girl who wants to bang you that night. You just never know. Make a move on them and don't worry about anything more than that.


I've had girls be ridiculously obvious with me, like fake writing a text message to her friend.. showing me her phone and it said "lets go to your apt now". I've also had girls who I thought wanted NOTHING to do with me be happy to go out with me. I've also had girls who I thought wanted to rip my clothes off in the next 5 minutes and get rejected. Notice a trend? Sometimes ya know, sometimes ya don't. So make a move and don't give a sh*t

[the minx]

Yeah, just go for it. Be a gentleman, of course, but make your intentions/feelings known. The more time you waste trying to figure out some sign she's interested, the more chance you have of her losing interest.

[SuburbOfMemphisTN]

Originally Posted by spinx

Yeah, just go for it. Be a gentleman, of course, but make your intentions/feelings known. The more time you waste trying to figure out some sign she's interested, the more chance you have of her losing interest.

^^Agreed! You must take chances in order for any type of successes to come to you. Just be true to who you are and be honest and upfront with them...

Get out there, take chances, and have some fun!!!!

[MsAnnThrope]

It's all in the eyes and the body language.

If you haven't managed to work it out by now I doubt you ever will.

[RCCCB]

Go through a 100 or more. Eventually you should be able to find one who likes you back and might make a good match.

At 44 don't still go looking for signs. Do that and a match could come when you get to be 144 (God willing).

[ChiGuy2.5]

I kind of suck at it too! haha. I always manage to get the girl though because I make the move! Its not hard and if she turns you down then rejection is just a part of the game. Most girls I have dated have told me that they were flirting with me when we met. I tell them I had no clue and they laugh at me cuz they thought it was SUPER obvious. I am sort of oblivious to those things. Good luck to you!