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Old 01-31-2017, 07:28 AM
 
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So I am 26 and never been on a date. I'm quite ugly, though I am in shape physically, well educated, and have a good white collar job. I just suck with women and it's extremely lonely being me. How do others who are in similar situation cope being ugly and single with zero prospects in sight.
I wouldn't be able to help you much with that. I'm 44, and also ugly, so I've never been in a relationship either. And I'm blue-collar (electrician) rather than white-collar. Nothing I've tried has proven successful when it comes to dating.
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Old 02-01-2017, 04:10 PM
 
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it also bothers me whenever women ask why haven't you had a girlfriend before, it's pretty obvious if you are a guy, because if a guy has never had one, it's most of the time because he just never knew how to make one happen in the first place.
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Old 02-01-2017, 08:22 PM
 
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it also bothers me whenever women ask why haven't you had a girlfriend before, it's pretty obvious if you are a guy, because if a guy has never had one, it's most of the time because he just never knew how to make one happen in the first place.
Or in my case, because I'm an unattractive, untalented, and completely worthless loser and totally unworthy of ever being in a relationship or being loved.
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Old 02-01-2017, 09:05 PM
 
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Or in my case, because I'm an unattractive, untalented, and completely worthless loser and totally unworthy of ever being in a relationship or being loved.
Dude jeez louise. Just STOP. If you are proud to say you are ugly and is proud to say these negative outlook in life each and EVERY time, man, WTF, already. I mean yes! You really will not find anyone!!!

If I, a bonafide 40 yr old virgin was able to find a man and now married. YOU CAN TOO!

You know what I did? I started believing in myself, I started LOVING myself. It has to start with YOU. You have to or you really are gonna die alone.

You have to have faith in humanity and most importantly, YOURSELF, for goodness sake.

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Old 02-01-2017, 09:07 PM
 
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Or in my case, because I'm an unattractive, untalented, and completely worthless loser and totally unworthy of ever being in a relationship or being loved.
Assuming you can play the fiddle that can be quite the panty dropper in East Tennessee.
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Old 02-01-2017, 10:40 PM
 
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So I am 26 and never been on a date. I'm quite ugly, though I am in shape physically, well educated, and have a good white collar job. I just suck with women and it's extremely lonely being me. How do others who are in similar situation cope being ugly and single with zero prospects in sight.
Can we get a pic? I mean seriously.

And ugliness is no indicator of being single, I see ugly people with absolute hotties all the time. Work on your self-esteem shug.
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Old 02-01-2017, 11:35 PM
 
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Or in my case, because I'm an unattractive, untalented, and completely worthless loser and totally unworthy of ever being in a relationship or being loved.
Yeah or that.
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Old 02-02-2017, 03:32 AM
 
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Dude jeez louise. Just STOP. If you are proud to say you are ugly and is proud to say these negative outlook in life each and EVERY time, man, WTF, already. I mean yes! You really will not find anyone!!!

If I, a bonafide 40 yr old virgin was able to find a man and now married. YOU CAN TOO!

You know what I did? I started believing in myself, I started LOVING myself. It has to start with YOU. You have to or you really are gonna die alone.

You have to have faith in humanity and most importantly, YOURSELF, for goodness sake.
If a woman is a virgin that long it's because she chooses to be
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Old 02-02-2017, 05:43 AM
 
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If a woman is a virgin that long it's because she chooses to be
If a man is a virgin that long, he's chosen to be. Some guys would probably, or could, get a hooker by then. That's not ideal. And it's note a cure all for other issues. But it does get the guy the bare minimum of just sex to finally scratch that itch with something other than his hand, or a fleshlight.

One poster here mentioned that if they didn't meet a woman, and lose their virginity by their 29th b-day, they were just gonna cut out the middle man and go to a hooker. But he has been a virgin by choice, because women have been interested in him. However, he thought all of them were ugly, so he passed on dating or sleeping with them. Same for women. They probably had men they didn't like interested in them, so they rejected the guy's advances.

I think there's also escort services for women, but they have to really be searched for, since the sex industry is predominantly male-oriented.

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Old 02-02-2017, 11:04 AM
 
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If a woman is a virgin that long it's because she chooses to be
I actually did. Many factors though important factor I think was, I was a teenager when AIDS made people drop dead like flies.
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