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Old 07-30-2012, 11:03 PM
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I sent a text joking around to this girl and asked her did she want to come over and have a "safe adult fun" encounter because I had not heard from her and didn't expect her to respond. So she responded and said yes and she offered to come over but it was 2am in the morning. I was looking for a normal time visit at 6pm.

So was mad and hung up the phone because I didn't want late company and I'm not into the one night stand thing so it's clear by her actions she was hoping to have SEX and has just met me last week.


Am I the only guy in America who lives alone who doesn't like POP UP VISITS at 2am in the morning? So I guess I can DELETE the FREAK now
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Old 07-30-2012, 11:06 PM
 
Location: Australia
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I sent a text joking around to this girl and asked her did she want to come over and have a "safe adult fun" encounter because I had not heard from her and didn't expect her to respond. So she responded and said yes and she offered to come over but it was 1am in the morning. So last night she wanted to know if I wanted company at.............2am and I was like no because my place is a mess and plus she was a first time visitor

So she said..."this is the second time" you said this and hung up and hasn't accepted my calls since LOL. I'm not into the one night stand thing and it's clear by her actions she was hoping to have SEX and has just met me.


Am I the only guy in America who lives alone who doesn't like POP UP VISITS at 2am in the morning? So I guess I can DELETE the FREAK now

The moral of this story is...clean your house if you want sex.
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Old 07-30-2012, 11:06 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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WHAT WERE YOU THINKING? Was that just a risque joke you thought you were making? I can think of a few people here who'd think they'd died and gone to heaven with a response like you got. And you're blaming HER and calling HER a freak? Wow. I think your joke backfired on you, and next time you'd better be more careful if you're not serious about wanting sex ASAP.
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Old 07-30-2012, 11:27 PM
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WHAT WERE YOU THINKING? Was that just a risque joke you thought you were making? I can think of a few people here who'd think they'd died and gone to heaven with a response like you got. And you're blaming HER and calling HER a freak? Wow. I think your joke backfired on you, and next time you'd better be more careful if you're not serious about wanting sex ASAP.
Because you just can't expect to pop up at someone's place at 2am. But the joke did backfire because I never thought she would respond at all.
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Old 07-30-2012, 11:28 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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you did this in another thread, similar. just have habit of sending 'strange jokes,' to women
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Old 07-30-2012, 11:30 PM
 
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dont say what you dont mean. problem solved
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Old 07-30-2012, 11:31 PM
 
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Because you just can't expect to pop up at someone's place at 2am. But the joke did backfire because I never thought she would respond at all.
You could just tell her that and ask if she wants to come over during more normal hours.

I don't get why you'd be so offended that she asked if she could come over when you texted her. I'd think that's implied when you text her at 2 AM. I also think you're looking for reasons to "delete" her.
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Old 07-30-2012, 11:36 PM
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you did this in another thread, similar. just have habit of sending 'strange jokes,' to women
That's my new thing. If I feel a women is not interested and is avoiding me I will send a text requesting some kind of encounter.


In the past I would get mad and leave nasty messages but not anymore
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Old 07-30-2012, 11:39 PM
 
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Holy crap, you're still around making these threads? I don't know whether to be proud of you or point the finger of shame.
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Old 07-30-2012, 11:40 PM
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You could just tell her that and ask if she wants to come over during more normal hours.

I don't get why you'd be so offended that she asked if she could come over when you texted her. I'd think that's implied when you text her at 2 AM. I also think you're looking for reasons to "delete" her.
Yeah I should have been more clear. First of all she lives in another state and was going to drive to me which was a hour and then come here which meant she was expecting to spend the night

I knew for a fact i didn't want her to spend the night so it was no need to have her come over at 2am. That's a lot better than having her come over and asking her to leave at 4am
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