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Old 08-07-2012, 04:39 PM
 
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Not to be too controversial, but from what I understand, many priests aren't exactly asexual !
Haha. With all my Catholic schooling, don't get me started on priests. One of the things I've noticed is that they have a following of woman parishioners who fawn over them and are really good at doing "tea and cookies with the ladies."

Whether the OP is trolling or not, I think that a situation like this is a "permutation" of sorts. If there are 2 endpoints, a la Kinsey, this is probably somewhere along the continuum in between the 2 endpoints. It probably could use some kind of therapeutic intervention, when the OP is ready, but mental health practitioners all have areas of specialty, so one who knows this area is needed as opposed to one who deals with PTSD, addiction, or other niche areas.

Also, being aware that someone of the same gender is considered attractive means NOTHING. Europeans are much more comfortable with this. In North America, it's just not spoken; however, such criteria is how guys in financial services or marketing/sales hire other guys, from what I've seen.

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Old 08-07-2012, 06:24 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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well both of their behaviors are disgusting, the men and the women and their organs too most of the time. but i don't know about you saying you're not gay if you're COMPLETELY turned off by women and turned on by men. that equals gay far as I can tell....
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Old 08-07-2012, 06:27 PM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Haha. With all my Catholic schooling, don't get me started on priests. One of the things I've noticed is that they have a following of woman parishioners who fawn over them and are really good at doing "tea and cookies with the ladies."

Whether the OP is trolling or not, I think that a situation like this is a "permutation" of sorts. If there are 2 endpoints, a la Kinsey, this is probably somewhere along the continuum in between the 2 endpoints. It probably could use some kind of therapeutic intervention, when the OP is ready, but mental health practitioners all have areas of specialty, so one who knows this area is needed as opposed to one who deals with PTSD, addiction, or other niche areas.

Also, being aware that someone of the same gender is considered attractive means NOTHING. Europeans are much more comfortable with this. In North America, it's just not spoken; however, such criteria is how guys in financial services or marketing/sales hire other guys, from what I've seen.
I don't think that the OP thinking other men are attractive is what is making everyone think he's gay but the fact that he finds women disgusting!
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Old 08-07-2012, 06:29 PM
 
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Ait, but thy say that homos were born that way..

With me this is a new trend that I've come to notice
When they find a gene, then we'll know for sure. Until then, it's just opinion.
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Old 08-07-2012, 06:43 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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This thread sound like it was fabricated by some hairy old man who takes some sort of delight in getting straight males to admit to being gay.......real funny....okay- everybody is gay- Happy now?
Are you implying that having body hair is bad?
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Old 08-07-2012, 08:43 PM
 
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Many homophobes actually have repressed homosexual feelings. Women "gross you out" and you're attracted to men... it sounds to me like you are homosexual but haven't come to terms with your feelings yet and are therefore denying it. Hope you find your way.
This^.
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Old 08-07-2012, 09:57 PM
 
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Are you implying that having body hair is bad?
This is the post you choose to reply to?
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Old 08-07-2012, 11:01 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I agree with the other posters... what do you think about when you masturbate? That is your orientation.

If you think about guys, there is nothing wrong with being gay.
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Old 08-08-2012, 02:45 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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I agree with the other posters... what do you think about when you masturbate? That is your orientation.

If you think about guys, there is nothing wrong with being gay.
Heck no! I think about hot girls..

What prompted this thread was that I've seen too many fat chicks in skirts.. And the fact that girls tend to ignore me.. The ones I like that is..
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Old 08-08-2012, 07:39 AM
 
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Lately I've been losing interest in females, their contrasting organs now kind of gross me out and I am not feeling much attraction towards them..

Men look much clean & crisp to me.. I seriously am disgusted by same gender intercoarse, so I'm obviously not homosexual..


But does any other male in their 20's have the same situation as me?
Just wanted to remind the OP of what he posted initially. So...hot girls' "organs" are not "contrasting" and gross?

I have seen some weirdos on the Internet in my time, but...wow. OP, ask your mom to make an appointment for you with a caring specialist.
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