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My boyfriend really likes porn. When we got together he told me how much he liked porn, but since he wasn't single anymore, he wouldn't need it because he had me. I found out he's been masturbating after I go to bed, which is after we have sex. I asked him if I'm not satisfying him anymore and he said that I am. I don't know if I can believe that if he's masturbating after we have sex. A few nights ago, we were getting ready to have sex and he asked if we could watch porn. I still havent really recovered from the whole masturbating to porn after we have sex, so I was a little hesistant. I decided to let him watch it, figured maybe I could get some enjoyment out of it too. After he was searching he didn't find anything he liked so he asked if he could look up videos of his "favorites." I looked at him in shock. He wants to have sex with me, while watching his favorite porn stars make stupid faces and noises with some other dude/girl. After the whole masturbating incident, I gave him a lot of **** for it, because I was upset. So when he asked about the favorites, I didn't say anything and just let him do it. We started having sex and he did not look at me once. I started crying because it made me feel like he was picturing himself having sex with them, not me. It made me feel like I'm not good enough anymore. I let him do pretty much whatever he wants, position wise, because I know the same ol' gets boring. I even told him we can try some bondage or other kinky **** to spice things up. He just doesn't want to do that. I don't understand why he's been so into porn lately. It hurts my feelings because he's all that I need and I'm not all that he needs. Talking to him has gotten us into a lot of fights, and he doesn't want me to talk to any friends - so here I am. Any opinions or advice? Guys or girls welcome! Please..
You don't seem like a troll...you sound like me when at 19 I discovered my boyfriend had the MOTHER of all porn stashes. LOL I was disgusted and felt inadequate. But unfortunatley in my years of working w/ mostly guys...they're all the same pretty much. Men watch a LOT of pornography.
A lot of guys...not only geeks...even do it while at WORK. I think it is a problem, but it is bigger than both of us. The way you feel is probably why most guys try not to let their partners find out about their "habit." Deal w/ it or find a new guy and try to turn a blind eye to his "activities." You don't want to know.
You don't seem like a troll...you sound like me when at 19 I discovered my boyfriend had the MOTHER of all porn stashes. LOL I was disgusted and felt inadequate. But unfortunatley in my years of working w/ mostly guys...they're all the same pretty much. Men watch a LOT of pornography.
A lot of guys...not only geeks...even do it while at WORK. I think it is a problem, but it is bigger than both of us. The way you feel is probably why most guys try not to let their partners find out about their "habit." Deal w/ it or find a new guy and try to turn a blind eye to his "activities." You don't want to know.
Wow, you must have been involved with quite a few losers.
No, I am 22. 16 is just a random number because 'imjustagirl' was taken. We've been in this relationship for so long, I even moved to Iowa with him, so he could be with his family. Breaking it off isn't an option I'm ready to consider. I just wish he could talk to me about it without getting so mad that it bothers me.
No, I am 22. 16 is just a random number because 'imjustagirl' was taken. We've been in this relationship for so long, I even moved to Iowa with him, so he could be with his family. Breaking it off isn't an option I'm ready to consider. I just wish he could talk to me about it without getting so mad that it bothers me.
22 is much better!
Either you accept him for who he is or move on, we can't change people into who we want them to be.
? LOL don't work in IT, then. You'd go insane contemplating the # of "sexual deviants" in the public at large.
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