My new philosophy when it comes to women. (young, family, conversation)
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All I got out of this is 'Women aren't special, I'm above them and better than them. They'll have to PROVE they're worthy of me enjoying their company or else I'll just move on to the next one.'
Doesn't exactly seem like a healthy way of going about relationships, but whatever works.
I'm not sure how others get into relationships, but with me it's all about progression. You see, I initiated. I got her number...hell, I was downright nasty with how I did that.
But then, I told her straight off the bat that I'd like her if we spent more time with one another. That she should expect me to make moves...this cooled her off me for a bit.
So, I moved on...kinda. I still texted her all the time because she's a good person to bounce ideas off of. But nothing sexual...just a good friend in my book, until she doesn't want me to be anymore.
Anyway, then she progresses the relationship beyond what it was. We've never hung out at her place...she's never hung out at mine.
What this means is that she knows that I think of her in sexual ways (I've made it clear), and she isn't put off by this...which means if she gives me a chance, I'll be making a move. This also means that she's probably thought of me in sexual ways...enough to be ok with my "flirting"...
If she puts herself in that situation, I'll just be fulfilling my obligations...
I don't intend on hanging out unless she understands what that is leading to. Like I said, my new philosophy "Don't waste my time".
All I got out of this is 'Women aren't special, I'm above them and better than them. They'll have to PROVE they're worthy of me enjoying their company or else I'll just move on to the next one.'
Thank you! LOL. Actually ALL of the OPs posts/thread is summarized with that same BS 'dilemma'. Kinda like Different threads same BS. Reminds me of nyanna - isn't she the one who creates diff threads but ultimately has same woe is me my skin is dark therefore im ugly 'dilemma'?
Thank you! LOL. Actually ALL of the OPs posts/thread is summarized with that same BS 'dilemma'. Kinda like Different threads same BS. Reminds me of nyanna - isn't she the one who creates diff threads but ultimately has same woe is me my skin is dark therefore im ugly 'dilemma'?
I think they should hook up or something
Could you explain to me why the dilemma is BS?
To me, it's a genuine dilemma..if you can help me resolve it, you might as well help me out...
Since you asked IMO, you have a pucked up attitude towards relationships and how to go about it. I honestly wonder why u even bother. I also dont know you but EVERYTIME I read your thread topic you annoy me, immensely.
Because this is ALL I get everytime you start a thread:
'Women aren't special, I'm above them and better than them. They'll have to PROVE they're worthy of me enjoying their company.'
So honestly why do u even bother? stay single, for your sanity.
Oh maybe you should start by not being selfish.
Last edited by heartbrox; 08-06-2012 at 04:59 PM..
Since you asked IMO, you have a pucked up attitude towards relationships and how to go about it. I honestly wonder why u even bother. I also dont know you but EVERYTIME I read your thread topic you annoy me, immensely.
Because this is ALL I get everytime you start a thread:
'Women aren't special, I'm above them and better than them. They'll have to PROVE they're worthy of me enjoying their company.'
So honestly why do u even bother? stay single, for your sanity.
I can't help with the annoying bit...
But, I don't know, I definitely don't think that...I'm not above women and they have nothing to prove to me. I'm not special, just Joe Average.
Perhaps maybe the attitude you're picking up on is where I'm like 'women who'll never be special to me, by my own choosing or their own, will remain just that; not special'.
Bad attitude, or 'unhealthy' as it were?
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