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Old 07-08-2014, 11:26 AM
 
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So I was Facebook talking with a guy i've recently met at school. He talks to me a lot. Suddendly he jokingly said something about the compliments he'd like to hear, among which "gorgeous". I said that it surely seemed like an agreable compliment, and he replied "come on, somebody already said that to you for sure?".

Was he trying to say he finds me beautiful, is that what it means ?
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Old 07-08-2014, 11:50 AM
 
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So I was Facebook talking with a guy i've recently met at school. He talks to me a lot. Suddendly he jokingly said something about the compliments he'd like to hear, among which "gorgeous". I said that it surely seemed like an agreable compliment, and he replied "come on, somebody already said that to you for sure?".

Was he trying to say he finds me beautiful, is that what it means ?
It could mean anything. Maybe he was fishing for info on other guys you hang out with, i.e. whether you have a bf or a circle of guy friend/admirers. It sounds like an odd turn for the conversation to take. He was steering it there for a reason.

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Old 07-08-2014, 11:52 AM
 
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Could be trying to figure out how available you are.
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Old 07-08-2014, 12:06 PM
 
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99% of the time guys are trying to hit on something.
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Old 07-08-2014, 12:16 PM
 
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So I was Facebook talking with a guy i've recently met at school. He talks to me a lot. Suddendly he jokingly said something about the compliments he'd like to hear, among which "gorgeous". I said that it surely seemed like an agreable compliment, and he replied "come on, somebody already said that to you for sure?".

Was he trying to say he finds me beautiful, is that what it means ?
It means, "Get off Frickin FaceBook!!!!"
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Old 07-08-2014, 12:18 PM
 
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99% of the time guys are trying to hit on something.
Nah ah Sexy Sauce!!
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Old 07-08-2014, 12:20 PM
 
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Honestly, I don't read too much into compliments because 9 times out of 10 they say the same thing to everyone else as well.

You can't go by compliments alone especially not over Facebook. Unless he has asked you to hang out or go out sometime, I wouldn't assume he is "hitting on" anything.
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Old 07-08-2014, 12:22 PM
 
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Honestly, I don't read too much into compliments because 9 times out of 10 they say the same thing to everyone else as well.

You can't go by compliments alone especially not over Facebook. Unless he has asked you to hang out or go out sometime, I wouldn't assume he is "hitting on" anything.
I think he's trying to get up the nerve to ask her out. But he's scoping out the terrain, first. He's trying to see if there's any competition.
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Old 07-08-2014, 01:27 PM
 
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So was that the end of the conversation? We're missing information here, it seems. How did you react?
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Old 07-08-2014, 01:30 PM
 
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Same meaning as these:

"I can't believe you're not single."
"I'm sure a pretty girl like you is used to getting compliments."
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