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Old 08-17-2012, 07:12 AM
 
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I broke up with my ex fiance because he has anger problem,he cuss on mevery much when we dispute and he get overly jealous over stupid things. We back together few days ago and he start going to a therapist because he know he has a problem. Last night, we added each other back on facebook , he told me,"Everyone doesn't know yet that we back together so i should not write anything sweet on his wall like ( I love u hun , I miss u ....) ".I didn't like what he said to me coz we tell each other on the phone sweet words. However, I should not write " I love u" on his wall becoz he is worried about what his mother and people think.

Can you please give me some advises ?
Thank you
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Old 08-17-2012, 07:16 AM
 
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he is shagging someone else. see if he added a hot gurl since your split. and i dunno about u but if i split with someone coz of the reason you said, there's NO turning back.

also, noone can tell me what i can and can't do.
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Old 08-17-2012, 07:17 AM
 
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Yes, unsubscibe to Facebook until you are both mature enough to use it. In fact, disconnect permanently and do a forum search here for 'Facebook' and save yourself a lot of heartache and anxiety.
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Old 08-17-2012, 07:18 AM
 
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Oh boy. He's most likely worried because you have been 'bad-mouthed' to his family and friends. And now, if they all know you guys are 'kissy kissy' again, he will get an earful of "hey, what's wrong with you, man? You want more punishment, etc, etc..."

Just guessing..........it was my first thought / hunch. I could be wrong.

Or, he has not broken up with his rebound girl yet.
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Old 08-17-2012, 07:20 AM
 
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Save yourself a lot of pain, and walk away now.

That's my advice.
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Old 08-17-2012, 07:23 AM
 
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He's worried about what his mother would say? And he was your "fiancée"?

He's immature and not worth, having you...

Move on, find someone better to love.
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Old 08-17-2012, 02:15 PM
 
Location: North Dakota
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Dump him.
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Old 08-17-2012, 02:30 PM
 
Location: Australia
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LOL.

How old are you?

Close your fakebook down. Today.
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Old 08-17-2012, 02:43 PM
 
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Oh boy. He's most likely worried because you have been 'bad-mouthed' to his family and friends. And now, if they all know you guys are 'kissy kissy' again, he will get an earful of "hey, what's wrong with you, man? You want more punishment, etc, etc..."

Just guessing..........it was my first thought / hunch. I could be wrong.

Or, he has not broken up with his rebound girl yet.
This would be my first concern... the bolded.
The rebound, in one week? difficult, and He would have to move FAST, and have something lined up already... it does happen though....
There are threads on CD regarding FB.
But, really, since you 2 have been such a roller coaster, I would not be concerned about little things like FB. Worry about whether or not he controls his anger and jealousy, and you worry about your deficiencies in the relationship.

I would also recommend putting off the wedding. Sounds like a wedding is the last thing you two need right now, and for the next year at least.

Good luck, those 2nd chances are tough! And they hurt like hell when it doesn't work... again.
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Old 08-17-2012, 03:08 PM
 
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Oh great. He's getting help. Maybe you should wait until he actually carries through with the "changing" part before you get back with him. It's typical for the person with the problem to make a show of getting help and then just go back to their old habits once they get what they want.
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