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It's funny how the people who are against the prostitution route can't suggest another option. This is why i always say most people will never understand, especially good looking people. For most of us what other choice is there? It's much better to get it overwith as soon as possible and then treat the symptoms. If we carry on waiting even longer it'll never get done.
It's funny how the people who are against the prostitution route can't suggest another option. This is why i always say most people will never understand, especially good looking people. For most of us what other choice is there? It's much better to get it overwith as soon as possible and then treat the symptoms. If we carry on waiting even longer it'll never get done.
Once you get it over with, will you be motivated to treat the symptoms?
I have an idea for TripleBeamDreams and it might be kind of fun.
Why not post an ad on craigslist asking for candidates who might have the honor of being your first. When you weed through the responses (you should get a few) you can select 3 or 4 women and take them out on dates. Take them out a few times, really get to know them and become friends with them. You will feel confident because you are the one in control and doing the choosing.
Narrow it down and when you feel comfortable, you can make your move. You will have already formed a connection, so the experience won't be as hollow as with a pro. And you never know, you may find a steady FWB--or more.
There are many women out there who would love the opportunity to be part of a major life passage, and teach a young man everything she knows.
I have an idea for TripleBeamDreams and it might be kind of fun.
Why not post an ad on craigslist asking for candidates who might have the honor of being your first. When you weed through the responses (you should get a few) you can select 3 or 4 women and take them out on dates. Take them out a few times, really get to know them and become friends with them. You will feel confident because you are the one in control and doing the choosing.
Narrow it down and when you feel comfortable, you can make your move. You will have already formed a connection, so the experience won't be as hollow as with a pro. And you never know, you may find a steady FWB--or more.
There are many women out there who would love the opportunity to be part of a major life passage, and teach a young man everything she knows.
They would not go on a date when they see what I look like. I have social anxiety, erectile dysfunction, and no money.... why would any woman even go near me, especially when there are thousands, if not millions of other men with more money, better looks, better jobs, better bodies, and more confidence? Every one of those dates would end in failure. Visiting a prostitute is without a doubt the more realistic option for me, even though some people wouldn't advise it.
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Originally Posted by Moe'sTavern
Once you get it over with, will you be motivated to treat the symptoms?
To be honest not all of us are too concerned about attracting women and learning game. I could never learn how to spit game. I'm just not capable. A prostitute is actually one of the best options for someone who has social anxiety and isn't desirable. Paying for it really isn't as bad as it sounds. It feels much, much worse to remain a virgin for more years and not get sex.
So you don't want to attract women? I dont believe that, but if thats what you want use a prostitute then
They would not go on a date when they see what I look like. I have social anxiety, erectile dysfunction, and no money.... why would any woman even go near me, especially when there are thousands, if not millions of other men with more money, better looks, better jobs, better bodies, and more confidence? Every one of those dates would end in failure. Visiting a prostitute is without a doubt the more realistic option for me, even though some people wouldn't advise it.
Did you even read my post? These women will want to meet you BECAUSE you are a shy virgin. That is what you bring to the table. It has nothing to do with looks, money or erectile dysfunction. (How do you know you have that anyway?)
I took a guy's V when he was 25 and I was quite a bit older. He was an awkward, video-game playing, basement dwelling recluse (I met him online). When I visited his city I made him meet me at my hotel and the rest is history. I know you won't believe this but he ended up moving to Vegas about 5 years later and starting a video production company specializing in fetish porn. True story.
I am a female and I am nearing 40 and I am still a virgin cause I have not found the right guy! But I felt that I had to post in this thread!
I admire a man who does not conform to society and the pressures of life and waits to have sex with his true love that he follows his heart and not allow others to tell him what he should do. It takes a strong man to stay a virgin until they meet the right one. So to all of the men out there who are still virgins, Awesome!
It's funny how the people who are against the prostitution route can't suggest another option. This is why i always say most people will never understand, especially good looking people. For most of us what other choice is there? It's much better to get it overwith as soon as possible and then treat the symptoms. If we carry on waiting even longer it'll never get done.
Dude. You could be posting that ad right now and getting responses tonight. I gave you "another option" that carries no risk of arrest and little risk of rejection. Leverage your virginity and market it to the worthiest customer!
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