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Old 09-26-2012, 08:22 AM
 
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What does that have to do with Aspergers?

If that's the case, there's plenty of people on this forum with it then.
OP has Aspergers and tend to use it as an excuse.
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Old 09-26-2012, 08:25 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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OP has Aspergers and tend to use it as an excuse.

oh. I have A.S. too but I don't feel bad for him, because as you noticed he regularly discounts the experiences of A.S. women, women in general and writes them off as 'easy' for us but so life shattering for himself.
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Old 09-26-2012, 12:47 PM
 
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OP has Aspergers and tend to use it as an excuse.
I am the OP and I do not have Aspergers.
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Old 09-26-2012, 02:23 PM
 
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I think you might be right. I would have lost mine when I was 17, but ED ruined it for me. Hopefully kegel exercises can help the problem, and if I can just get it up this one time, I know I'll be fine after that. I just need one success, and then I'll have way more confidence in myself. Visiting hookers and getting sex whenever I want sounds pretty good. What's the point of even trying to get a GF?
too bad it is not legalized
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Old 09-26-2012, 02:57 PM
 
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I am the OP and I do not have Aspergers.
Sorry, I was talking about the guy who took over your thread! Wanttohavealife or somesuch. He sure does complain about the same things over and over across many threads. Mea culpa!
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Old 09-26-2012, 02:59 PM
 
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No problem, someone else explained they were talking about him too.
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Old 09-26-2012, 08:22 PM
 
Location: the ass of nowhere (the midwest)
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yeah, well all of that just goes to show you what guys have to be in order to be boyfriend material, the way i see it is that, men have to earn a girlfriend, women do not have to earn a boyfriend, they have a right to one
This is quite true for many women in the 20s because this is their prime years of attractiveness/desireability. It is said that there is a 20-80 rule for 20-something males -- the top 20% of them are having 80% of the DSR. The remaining 80% of average joes and late-bloomers are left almost completely out in the cold. I think this trend somewhat holds true for 20-something women as well, but it's not nearly as pronounced, on account of the simple fact that 20s women as a whole are far more desireable than 20s males as a whole. Just take a look at the much wider age range of men that a woman in her 20s has to choose from -- pretty much every man that's been through puberty and still has a pulse would grab a reasonably normal 25 year old female if they could. On the other hand, you've got Mr. 25-year-old-average-Joe who can really only date girls his age or --more likely-- a bit younger (21-25) or else maybe go get a 45-year-old divorced MILF for a little fling, that's a pretty stifling age range to choose from compared to his female counter-part who could seriously date males anywhere from 14 to 90 if she wanted to.
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Old 09-27-2012, 12:05 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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This is quite true for many women in the 20s because this is their prime years of attractiveness/desireability. It is said that there is a 20-80 rule for 20-something males -- the top 20% of them are having 80% of the DSR. The remaining 80% of average joes and late-bloomers are left almost completely out in the cold. I think this trend somewhat holds true for 20-something women as well, but it's not nearly as pronounced, on account of the simple fact that 20s women as a whole are far more desireable than 20s males as a whole. Just take a look at the much wider age range of men that a woman in her 20s has to choose from -- pretty much every man that's been through puberty and still has a pulse would grab a reasonably normal 25 year old female if they could. On the other hand, you've got Mr. 25-year-old-average-Joe who can really only date girls his age or --more likely-- a bit younger (21-25) or else maybe go get a 45-year-old divorced MILF for a little fling, that's a pretty stifling age range to choose from compared to his female counter-part who could seriously date males anywhere from 14 to 90 if she wanted to.
This is because a majority of women are competing for the top ten percent of so of male dating candidates. They don't choose so deliberately, they just subconsciously want a mate that would be potentially suitable for her offspring. So even women of average attractiveness would not consider a man of average attractiveness because they too are aiming for the creme de la creme, as it were. The whole package, looks, fitness, personality, good job, money, no baggage and so on. Of course many of them will be disappointed, and then their biological clock will kick in and they will settle, which will not be emotionally healthy for either party.

I think both men and women my age (twenties) could stand to be less entitled. Men should stop insisting on Western standards of beauty and women should start walking the walk with regards to all their talk of feminism and equality; if you wouldn't want a man to judge you on how you compare to his favorite porn star then don't judge him on how he compares to George Clooney in both money and looks.
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Old 09-27-2012, 01:53 AM
 
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This is quite true for many women in the 20s because this is their prime years of attractiveness/desireability. It is said that there is a 20-80 rule for 20-something males -- the top 20% of them are having 80% of the DSR. The remaining 80% of average joes and late-bloomers are left almost completely out in the cold. I think this trend somewhat holds true for 20-something women as well, but it's not nearly as pronounced, on account of the simple fact that 20s women as a whole are far more desireable than 20s males as a whole. Just take a look at the much wider age range of men that a woman in her 20s has to choose from -- pretty much every man that's been through puberty and still has a pulse would grab a reasonably normal 25 year old female if they could. On the other hand, you've got Mr. 25-year-old-average-Joe who can really only date girls his age or --more likely-- a bit younger (21-25) or else maybe go get a 45-year-old divorced MILF for a little fling, that's a pretty stifling age range to choose from compared to his female counter-part who could seriously date males anywhere from 14 to 90 if she wanted to.
and older men are more desirable because of money, resources?
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Old 09-27-2012, 02:01 AM
 
Location: Central California
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This is quite true for many women in the 20s because this is their prime years of attractiveness/desireability. It is said that there is a 20-80 rule for 20-something males -- the top 20% of them are having 80% of the DSR. The remaining 80% of average joes and late-bloomers are left almost completely out in the cold. I think this trend somewhat holds true for 20-something women as well, but it's not nearly as pronounced, on account of the simple fact that 20s women as a whole are far more desireable than 20s males as a whole. Just take a look at the much wider age range of men that a woman in her 20s has to choose from -- pretty much every man that's been through puberty and still has a pulse would grab a reasonably normal 25 year old female if they could. On the other hand, you've got Mr. 25-year-old-average-Joe who can really only date girls his age or --more likely-- a bit younger (21-25) or else maybe go get a 45-year-old divorced MILF for a little fling, that's a pretty stifling age range to choose from compared to his female counter-part who could seriously date males anywhere from 14 to 90 if she wanted to.
This is the stupidest thing I ever heard. It's easy to get most girls in their 20's. Even the hotter ones, it's not THAT hard.

I'm 25 and I've hooked up with and dated girls all over the spectrum, age-wise (from 18-40).
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