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OK, so, short story, I go to the gym a lot, look pretty good, definitely get ogled by the girls now and then
Would it work if I looked real quick at her, caught or sort of caught her, and be like "I'm sorry what?" she's like "no, nothing",,, and I'm like "Wait, What did you say?" "Nothing", and then I do a very deliberate "Hi, how you doing?" or "Hi, my name is..."
Just something I thought of, haven't had the chance to do it/balls to do it
*I'm not saying they're falling over for me, but I do get glances, sometimes more, sometimes less.
games? How is it a game? It's extremely direct. i see her checking me out, I make a point of showing I noticed, however jocingly
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but if she's already checking me out, she's at least somewhat interested, right? I mean unless she has a relationship
like dewdrop said it just sounds planned out and contrived. I dunno, I don't get why men feel it necessary to always go about these things like: 'okay what about if I say this....'
here's a novel idea: if you think she's so attractive go up to her and talk to her like a regular person.
And what are you going to say if she says, "I didn't say anything. Please leave me alone." It is a game because instead of just talking to her - you are trying to trick her into a conversation. If you see someone you want to talk to - just go up and talk to her.
here's a novel idea: if you think she's so attractive go up to her and talk to her like a regular person.
Well, the idea is it points out i noticed she was checking me out.
And also, it's amazingly difficult to make conversation with a random stranger, even if I do this little tactic. I mean, I could just introduce myself, the shake hand and tell name, but that's so... obvious and tacky? I dunno
it's not trying to trick her into a conversation, it's to put her on the spot showing that i noticed her checking me out.
Do you not get it? first few seconds she genuinely thinks that her looking at me made me mistake her for saying something, then I do the very obvious kind of smile and "hi, how you doing?" or whatever and then it's obvious my intention and that i realized she was checking me out
it's sort of cutesy/coy, and puts her on the spot, but does it put her on the spot too much?
Instant turn off for me. I'd think you were weird or an a-hole even if I was checking you out.
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