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"Wrong" is the wrong word. Right and wrong are useless in a relationship. Understanding him, what motivates him, what does it really mean TO HIM. Those things would be really useful.
"Wrong" is the wrong word. Right and wrong are useless in a relationship. Understanding him, what motivates him, what does it really mean TO HIM. Those things would be really useful.
what's wrong with having insecurities? I don't see why any woman would be confident to know that her man is jerking off to other women.
I meant insecurities about yourself before the porn.
If you are insecure-porn will only heighten that.
I find that women who have a problem with porn, have waaaaaayyyy more issues with themselves then the porn. The porn is just the icing on the 17 layer cake.
Because sometimes a guy is horny and his woman isn't around to please him. I've gone away on business and sometimes still do. If he wants to please himself by looking at some porn, who cares?? I'm not insecure with myself. There's something wrong if you feel it's OK to be insecure. Being insecure means you're not confident not only in yourself but also not confident in your SO. I've never heard anyone say what's wrong with having insecurities?
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Originally Posted by nyanna
what's wrong with having insecurities? I don't see why any woman would be confident to know that her man is jerking off to other women.
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Originally Posted by findly185
You're wrong if it stems from your own insecurities.
You're right if it stems from the fact that he chooses porn over sex with you.
That's my perspective on porn (coming from a girl who likes to watch herself).
Exactly Findly. I watch it too (not religiously lol...just whenever). Sometimes my husband is out or away for the weekend. Girl gotta do what a girl gotta do. It's no big deal.
No you're not wrong, and every single man doesn't watch porn, or will respect your decision and not watch while he is in a relationship with you...so basically find a man who doesn't watch porn
I meant insecurities about yourself before the porn.
If you are insecure-porn will only heighten that.
I find that women who have a problem with porn, have waaaaaayyyy more issues with themselves then the porn. The porn is just the icing on the 17 layer cake.
nobody is perfect and totally confident in themselves. most people have insecurities. i dont know why people are always forcing women to accept this behavior from men.
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Exactly Findly. I watch it too (not religiously lol...just whenever). Sometimes my husband is out or away for the weekend. Girl gotta do what a girl gotta do. It's no big deal.