Guys Who Are Too Pushy (date, women, attracted, sex)
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This is a big turn off. For all the guys out there, know that most women do not like pushy men! And when I mean pushy, I mean talking and hinting about sex even before a woman has really shown that she is interested.
I am not a prude by any means, but the only time I think it is appropiate for a guy to joke about having sex with me is when we are in the comfort stage of the relationship. By that time trust has been established. Any time before that and you just come across as perverted and disrespectful.
I am not bashing on men. If you're a guy, please just take this as some advice from the other side of the fence. It's ok to show that you are physically/sexually attracted. But there is a fine line between showing interest and coming across as a pervert, and you should not cross it!
I say men need to be MORE pushy on the aggregate. I don't think your advice is prudent but I will consider it. But the of men i've seen rejected for not showing their attention in a prompt manner, far exceeds ones who have been too pushy...far exceeds.
I say men need to be MORE pushy on the aggregate. I don't think your advice is prudent but I will consider it. But the of men I've seen rejected for not showing their attention in a prompt manner, far exceeds ones who have been too pushy...far exceeds.
Women call it "confidence" but basically what they are looking for is a guy who has options and therefore treats them with something approaching contempt. Then they are scared that their g/fs will give them a hard time if he slips through their fingers too easily. So they are the pushy one.
Gag. I am not a prude, and if the date is going okay, maybe if the moon is full...a guy might get lucky. But a guy who starts talking about sex, getting really pushy, is the biggest turn off...He will probably think I am the ice queen, because nothing turns the chill on more than a guy like that for me.
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