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It took him several weeks before he asked you out on a date. In time, you learned that he is honest and sincere, and you know he is the ideal man to spend your life with. He likes you a lot but how do you make him love you? Are there ways to make him fall madly in love with you? Yes! Let’s find out how.
Be his woman. What does a man look for in a woman? He wants someone who can take care of herself. Be his center of strength so that he can lean on you forever. Men look for confidence and balance in a woman. He seeks stability in his life, and if you can become a woman who ensures a stable and strong relationship you can get undying love from him.
Share his dreams. Every man is passionate about his career and about creating his identity. Share his dream. Encourage him to move forward in life. Make him believe in himself in times of hardship and he will always want you by his side.
Give him love. It is a universal truth that what you give always returns to you. To receive undying love from your man, give him unconditional love. Kiss him, hug him and create special moments with him. Say “I love you” to him as often as you can. Share his successes and he will share his entire life with you.
Listen to him. Do you know what the greatest threat to a relationship is? Did you answer the lack of communication? And would it surprise you that you can control this? So, don’t let the lack of communication ruin your relationship. Always make sure that you share your thoughts and dreams with your man. Be in tune with what’s happening in his life. Let him share with you the problems he face at the office. Be attentive to his problem and suggest solutions if you have any. Let him know that you are there for him.
Be his world. Let his world revolve around you. Take care of yourself by exercising and maintaining your health. Develop your hobbies and make sure that you have a lot of things to talk about. This spices up conversations and keeps your relationship interesting. Chasing excites men. Keep him hot on the trail. Be enigmatic so that he is interested in you.
It is love that makes the world go round. By practicing these habits, you will notice that love is never far from you.
This came from that one episode of NCIS didn't it? It had the book from the 1950's in it and the title was something about being the perfect wife and there was more than one woman who was chained to the wall wearing a wedding dress dead on the bed, the book worked out well for them as did the advice in it.
In my opinion the secrets to his undying love is likely eternal youth/beauty, him f*cking her where when and how he wants, and her being an adoring hero worshiper.
I highly doubt that a gal sharing her thoughts and dreams with a male partner is good advice considering how often it seems to be labeled as being used as an emotional tampon and nagging. Doubtful that most guys care to hear a gal's thoughts and dreams unless it's his thoughts and dreams or him f*cking her.
Probably suited for a gal to:
- be her woman than his woman
- find a guy who shares her dreams rather than change for him
- find a guy who gives her love that she gives him rather than give her love in hopes of reciprocation
- find a guy who makes her his world based on who she is rather than what she looks like..though that's probably an unrealistic standard
Last edited by udolipixie; 10-16-2012 at 12:58 PM..
You're not going to make any man love you any more than one can make you love him.
I agree that people could use some relationship coaching, and that some of the details in the OP's post are valid, but the rose colored view that your world should revolve around his, is and probably was pure saccharine fiction.
He cheated on me because I wasn't 'hot enough' for him.
It's all sweet in theory, but in reality may not work out as you think.
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