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I don't know about 2 ruth but the generalizations of both genders is at madness peak. I been told how I'm suppose to think and act by some the women on here so in my opinion CD there are a lot of guilty parties is just some are more functional than others.
Really?? This is how this board comes across since you've joined? Wow, this is mild compared to before. It's really calmed down a lot. Good moderation makes a big difference. I doubt anyone has told you personally how to think and act (since your posts are sane and mature). Maybe you saw some people sniping at the more obnoxious guys, or something...?
My issue is, everyone that I meet wants to get married. That's their goal for every guy that they met---"he's the one".
Women need to stop doing that, it scares guys away. Not that we don't want to get married but it just puts INSTANT pressure on the relationship. Learn how to take it easy. Even women that have been divorced for a year or so, they're ready to get "hitched" up IMMEDIATELY.
Learn to take it easy.
You need to look for the more independent types. Like Jet Jockey.
Women have always had stresses to deal with, though. Before modern conveniences, there was a TON of housework to do, and kids to look after. And lets not forget, there has always been sexual abuse of female children (Freud was astonished when he discovered how common it was), so that means a fair amount of women grow up with unresolved PTSD. And back before divorce was easy, it was not uncommon for women to suffer horrific abuse in the home. Lots of reasons for women to be unstable.
What's men's excuse for their emotional instability/anger issues?
The amount of men with emotional instability/anger issues is statistically less than half of the amount of that's seen in women. There has always been a significant portion of the male population with anger issues but it's always been there. What we're seeing with women now days is nearly epidemic.
Really?? This is how this board comes across since you've joined? Wow, this is mild compared to before. It's really calmed down a lot. Good moderation makes a big difference. I doubt anyone has told you personally how to think and act (since your posts are sane and mature). Maybe you saw some people sniping at the more obnoxious guys, or something...?
One person I can remember made a snipe at me. Its been more generalizing of men do this, I say I don't do that, I'm told I am lying because so and so guy has done this and every other male they know do this and other what not. But don't worry the positives have out weighed the negatives.
I will say it again ruth you are to kind and assume everyone is as sane as you are.
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