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Old 10-24-2012, 11:04 PM
 
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I am against abortion and have never had one.

 
Old 10-24-2012, 11:05 PM
 
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In my opinion, any man who is okay with trying to persuade a woman to have an abortion doesn't really have the right to demand his wife would have never had one.

Trying to have your cake and eat it too is not the name of the game. You're practically begging for your comeuppance.
That's your opinion, which is fine. Use your opinion for yourself.

When a man pushes a woman into an abortion, it's simple: he doesn't want kids with her. Better put, he doesn't want her and her kids to be his family that he takes care of. But that doesn't mean he's ok with women aborting his child. Bad choices in a sea of bad options.

Put it this way, and a lot of men can relate to this example: we're all fine having sex with the **** but we don't want to put the ring on her finger. A wife, a family is generally reserved for someone special. Recreational fun ain't.
 
Old 10-24-2012, 11:07 PM
 
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It's true. There are a lot of double standards when it comes to relationships. In the end, the sea of men is quite large and women aren't limited to one or the other pool of men. There are people for everybody.
And neither are men to the pool of women who got abortions. In my opinion, and it's just my opinion, any man who puts a ring on the finger of a woman who had a previous abortion is just desperate. But then I see men doing crazier things like putting rings on women who have previous children.

But I see women doing desperate things too. In the end, some people just don't want to be alone and they'll settle for anything that falls inbetween their legs.
 
Old 10-24-2012, 11:10 PM
 
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Yet you consider it a deal breaker if the man does drugs. Another thing that's between his body and god. But like I said, everyone has their deal breakers and they're not intended to be logical.
A partner doing drugs affects me directly. Money spent, health issues, affecting the senses (smell etc.) addiction etc. I dated a man for nearly 4 years who smoked pot fairly constantly and openly admitted to being addicted to it. If affected me in MANY ways. How does a woman having an abortion 20 years ago affect you right now?
 
Old 10-24-2012, 11:11 PM
 
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A partner doing drugs affects me directly. Money spent, health issues, affecting the senses (smell etc.) addiction etc. I dated a man for nearly 4 years who smoked pot fairly constantly and openly admitted to being addicted to it. If affected me in MANY ways. How does a woman having an abortion 20 years ago affect you right now?
What about an ex-con. That was another deal breaker. How does that effect you? it was in the past no?
 
Old 10-24-2012, 11:11 PM
 
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And neither are men to the pool of women who got abortions. In my opinion, and it's just my opinion, any man who puts a ring on the finger of a woman who had a previous abortion is just desperate. But then I see men doing crazier things like putting rings on women who have previous children.

But I see women doing desperate things too. In the end, some people just don't want to be alone and they'll settle for anything that falls inbetween their legs.
From the guy who had one woman have an abortion and had several other unplanned pregnancies. Class act.

Honestly this is why I tell women to avoid having sex with men who don't respect them. I would only sleep with a man who plans to marry me or better not have sex until marriage.
 
Old 10-24-2012, 11:13 PM
 
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From the guy who had one woman have an abortion and had several other unplanned pregnancies. Class act.

Honestly this is why I tell women to avoid having sex with men who don't respect them. I would only sleep with a man who plans to marry me or better not have sex until marriage.
I don't try to be fair when it comes to attraction.

Like I say, I have a dick don't mean I want my woman to have one.
 
Old 10-24-2012, 11:14 PM
 
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It would certainly give me a pause, as im not a big fan of abortion in general, with fee exceptions. I guess it really dpends on the circumstances. I will never understand however, why some tend to think that decision about abortion is up to the woman. I will never agree that the man involved shouldnt have his say as well, idealy with the couple deciding on whether to keep the baby or not, much like a couple who decides to have children. Because yhe woman gets to carry the pregnancy, doesnt mean the man should be completely taken out of the equation. Gotta love the feminazi bs we have to listen to everyday.
 
Old 10-24-2012, 11:17 PM
 
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What about an ex-con. That was another deal breaker. How does that effect you? it was in the past no?
I've yet to meet an ex con that was a decent person. So that deal breaker comes from personal experience.
 
Old 10-24-2012, 11:18 PM
 
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It would certainly give me a pause, as im not a big fan of abortion in general, with fee exceptions. I guess it really dpends on the circumstances. I will never understand however, why some tend to think that decision about abortion is up to the woman. I will never agree that the man involved shouldnt have his say as well, idealy with the couple deciding on whether to keep the baby or not, much like a couple who decides to have children. Because yhe woman gets to carry the pregnancy, doesnt mean the man should be completely taken out of the equation. Gotta love the feminazi bs we have to listen to everyday.
My opinion on this is well known. I think women have the right for it to be 100% their choice but men should have the right for it to be 100% their financial responsibility (yellow jacket used the term financial abortion, I liked that).

In the end, it's a severe moral failing to abort your child as well as to abandon your child. Though to me, aborting is several times higher on the moral scale.
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