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Old 10-28-2012, 12:04 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Originally Posted by Rural City Gal View Post
If he cheated on me with a woman, the first few times I will probably forgive him. But he cheated on me with a man at all? **** THAT ****. I will not even waste time for him to apologize.The dude is gay like most bisexual men are, and he lied to me about it.

I would feel like so low,so pathetic,incompetent,not worthy,I would feel like a failure,stupid,ugly, a clown, a puppet, nothing more than a lap dog, useless, a show monkey.My ego as a woman would be deflated, and in my self esteem would be out the window. All the listed might be the things I would experience if I was in that type of situation where a man cheats on me with another man. Here's another way to look at it.

It's a huge spit in the face, and makes me think that it's true when people, Gay men, and bisexual men hate women.To me it's like they hate women so much they will lead her on making her think he's a straight man,promise her a family, and marriage and eternity of happiness, then one day he cheats on her with a man.He's basically spitting and punching her in the face at the same time. It's a mind game.
The bolded text makes me think you ain't playing with a full deck when it comes to this.

 
Old 10-28-2012, 12:06 PM
 
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The bolded text makes me think you ain't playing with a full deck when it comes to this.
+1 My god with the people on this forum.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Memphis
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And just for the record,as a somewhat bisexual woman, I would hope to marry a straight man,because I know he's better for me, and I deserve the best. I deserve a man that would love me as a woman, because he loves women, and not be thinking about other men while we are making love. A man that loves eating the kitty kat, and have no problem doing that. And I can only find that in a straight man. A COMPLETE STRAIGHT MAN, THAT HAS NOT INTENTION OF BEING WITH A MAN IN ANYWAY SHAPE OR FORM.

Sometimes an open mind can lead to a broken heart.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 12:11 PM
 
Location: Memphis
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The bolded text makes me think you ain't playing with a full deck when it comes to this.
The only reason why I probably forgive him because I know what other women got between their legs.But if he keeps doing it, then I would have to break up with him.But this is a hypothetical situation so I don't know what I would do in real life.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 12:12 PM
 
Location: Northeast NJ
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Originally Posted by Rural City Gal View Post
If he cheated on me with a woman, the first few times I will probably forgive him.
...Seriously? Just reading this makes me realize you have self-esteem issues...then I read this...

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But he cheated on me with a man at all? **** THAT ****. I will not even waste time for him to apologize.The dude is gay like most bisexual men are, and he lied to me about it.

I would feel like so low,so pathetic,incompetent,not worthy,I would feel like a failure,stupid,ugly, a clown, a puppet, nothing more than a lap dog, useless, a show monkey.My ego as a woman would be deflated, and in my self esteem would be out the window.
Too late, you already possess the traits you listed.

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All the listed might be the things I would experience if I was in that type of situation where a man cheats on me with another man. Here's another way to look at it.

It's a huge spit in the face, and makes me think that it's true when people, Gay men, and bisexual men hate women.To me it's like they hate women so much they will lead her on making her think he's a straight man,promise her a family, and marriage and eternity of happiness, then one day he cheats on her with a man.He's basically spitting and punching her in the face at the same time. It's a mind game.
To me, cheating is cheating, period, doesn't matter who it's with.

You are absolutely a bigot. You have a severely skewed definition of the word bisexual. It refers to someone of either gender who is capable of being attracted to either gender. That's it.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 12:14 PM
 
Location: Northeast NJ
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Originally Posted by Rural City Gal View Post
And just for the record,as a somewhat bisexual woman, I would hope to marry a straight man,because I know he's better for me, and I deserve the best. I deserve a man that would love me as a woman, because he loves women, and not be thinking about other men while we are making love. A man that loves eating the kitty kat, and have no problem doing that. And I can only find that in a straight man. A COMPLETE STRAIGHT MAN, THAT HAS NOT INTENTION OF BEING WITH A MAN IN ANYWAY SHAPE OR FORM.

Sometimes an open mind can lead to a broken heart.
So much so that you'll forgive cheating?
 
Old 10-28-2012, 12:21 PM
 
Location: Memphis
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So much so that you'll forgive cheating?
I was speaking in a hypothetical sense,read my other post.Who what I might do. Of course cheating is bad all around but when a man is cheating with another man that's awful beyond belief. Well cheating with a family member or close friend is pretty bad too.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 12:23 PM
 
Location: Memphis
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...Seriously? Just reading this makes me realize you have self-esteem issues...then I read this...



Too late, you already possess the traits you listed.



To me, cheating is cheating, period, doesn't matter who it's with.

You are absolutely a bigot. You have a severely skewed definition of the word bisexual. It refers to someone of either gender who is capable of being attracted to either gender. That's it.
I suggest you look at the Kinsey Scale,cause sometimes it's not always in the middle.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 12:27 PM
 
Location: Memphis
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...Seriously? Just reading this makes me realize you have self-esteem issues...then I read this...



Too late, you already possess the traits you listed.



To me, cheating is cheating, period, doesn't matter who it's with.

You are absolutely a bigot. You have a severely skewed definition of the word bisexual. It refers to someone of either gender who is capable of being attracted to either gender. That's it.
I have none of the traits I listed above.Read what I wrote again. I was speaking on imaginary terms. Besides I doubt a bisexual man, or gay man can even get close to me, in order to do those things.As soon as I get married I am hiring a Private Investigator, and I am having divorce papers already handy.
 
Old 10-28-2012, 12:34 PM
 
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I have none of the traits I listed above.Read what I wrote again. I was speaking on imaginary terms. Besides I doubt a bisexual man, or gay man can even get close to me, in order to do those things.As soon as I get married I am hiring a Private Investigator, and I am having divorce papers already handy.
Ok, this has to be trolling. Trolling or crazy.
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