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Old 11-08-2012, 04:02 AM
 
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After being dumped for 2 times, my best friends ex-Gf was totally broked,
Its when I and she started talking she lessen her sorrows and realised that I gave her right treatment which she was expecting from her ex.
we too had mature talk and very much understandable to each other.
Eventually we are in real love and want to marry.
She totally dont hv any feelings for my friend and loves me only so much. <3
what should I do, should I marry her & settle at new place ?? or ??

plz help..
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Old 11-08-2012, 05:15 AM
 
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Marry her today! Do not wait until tomorrow or it will be too late! Go to her now and get her to a church! Rebound score!!
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Old 11-08-2012, 05:31 AM
 
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Someone please translate this for me.

I will offer what I can understand. If you both love each other and she is not involved with someone else (i.e. boyfriend or husband) and you are not involved with someone, then yes, go ahead and marry her.
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Old 11-08-2012, 05:45 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Sure why not, sounds like a mature decision...a marriage made in heaven!
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Old 11-08-2012, 08:51 AM
 
Location: New Jersey
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How long have you been with this woman? You understand each other but have you even had an actual relationship with her? And what about the impact this will have on your friendship to begin with?

DON'T run and marry her. She is on the rebound from your best friend. Read that last sentence. Really read it. Sounds real messy to me.
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Old 11-08-2012, 08:56 AM
 
Location: NY
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I am not sure what the question is. Is it fear of offending your friend by marrying his ex? Is he upset now that you are dating his ex?

Just sounds like you need to make a decision. Risk losing the friendship over this woman, or risk losing the woman over the friendship. (Of course, it is only a risk, you may not lose one for the other in either scenario)
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Old 11-08-2012, 08:59 AM
 
Location: Homeless
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Someone please translate this for me.

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THIS!!!!
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Old 11-08-2012, 09:02 AM
 
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If she is an ex, then she is open game. Personaly, I dont date freinds exes but wouldnt judge anyone that would. If I were to do so, and I cared about my freindship with the guy, I would ask him straight up how he feels about it. Most of my guy friends would likely say, go for it.
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Old 11-08-2012, 09:24 AM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Sounds like a Dawson's Creek kind of situation to me! Hey, it worked out for Joey and Pacey in the end!
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Old 11-08-2012, 09:27 AM
 
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Sounds like a Dawson's Creek kind of situation to me! Hey, it worked out for Joey and Pacey in the end!
God, you women and your hollywood obsession. My GF does this **** all day and I keep telling her that hollywood is fantasy not real life. Do you women live in the fantasy world?
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