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LOL yeah you know me personally so well to be able to say what I am or am not.
No - but I have read enough of your posts about yourself, your friends, and your family to come to an educated guess. In another thread - you are talking about your brother having two little kids, a wife, and a mistress. You have said before that you see no good examples of good relationships around you. All relationships are bad. So - obviously - if this is truly the case, your friends' Facebook relationship status' are not going to be indicative of the status' of those in healthy relationships.
No - but I have read enough of your posts about yourself, your friends, and your family to come to an educated guess. In another thread - you are talking about your brother having two little kids, a wife, and a mistress. You have said before that you see no good examples of good relationships around you. All relationships are bad. So - obviously - if this is truly the case, your friends' Facebook relationship status' are not going to be indicative of the status' of those in healthy relationships.
Your sentence also mentioned well adjusted, happy people. I know many people who are happy and well adjusted and aren't in good relationships. My brother is the happiest when he's with his mistress, if you saw my father with his grandsons, he couldn't be happier. It's just a matter of perspective.
It does sound like he's hiding you. Can you just tell him it bothers you, and ask him to add you? If your man doesn't care enough about your feelings to add you to Facebook to make you feel good, then I can't believe he gives a crap about your feelings at all.
Could it be that he just feels that EVERYONE knows he's with you, and that if you want to talk to him or see him you can just wait 'til he comes home instead of needing this weird Facebook relationship confirmation?
Could it be that he just feels that EVERYONE knows he's with you, and that if you want to talk to him or see him you can just wait 'til he comes home instead of needing this weird Facebook relationship confirmation?
"Comes home"? The OP and her bf don't live together.
Well its pretty silly that you need your picture on a FB profile to feel reassurance of your relationships. Clearly youre not getting you want from the relationship and its not a FB picture.
Put your cards on the table. See where your relationship is going. I think that is the healthy, smart way for anyone to know where they stand. MAke sure youre ready to hear something you may not like though. its something you have to take responsibility for..most people ask for the truth and cant handle it...then they turn on their partners as some form of victims. No ones owes you anything my dear. if you want the truth, ask for it. and be ready for it. No blaming anyone
He DOES owe her some kind of child support don't you think?
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