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Old 11-20-2012, 02:42 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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I agree with this. The only messages I replied to were ones that were genuine & original. If a flirt, kiss, or a "you have an admirer" message was sent, I would ignore those as well.

People who usually send flirts are

1. Unattractive
2. Don't have a membership
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Old 11-20-2012, 02:45 PM
 
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Is this the single most irritating thing that drives you nuts when you are online?

"Getting a message from a unattractive female who lives 2000 miles away"
No , it isn't. The most irritating thing about online dating is getting flaked on.
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Old 11-20-2012, 03:05 PM
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No , it isn't. The most irritating thing about online dating is getting flaked on.

Well it shouldn't be irritated by that because it's a 80% chance of that happening since it's so many people online
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Old 11-20-2012, 03:08 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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I get tired of (and just ignore) messages from girls who weigh more than I do (or appear to).

I'm 5'7 150lbs and a dedicated runner. I'm sorry, but being 5'5 and 170 isn't attractive at all to me.
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Old 11-20-2012, 03:14 PM
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I get tired of (and just ignore) messages from girls who weigh more than I do (or appear to).

I'm 5'7 150lbs and a dedicated runner. I'm sorry, but being 5'5 and 170 isn't attractive at all to me.


I love 5'7 and 170 lol


Maybe because I;m 6'5 and 250 LOL
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Old 11-20-2012, 03:25 PM
 
Location: Denver, CO
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I love 5'7 and 170 lol


Maybe because I;m 6'5 and 250 LOL
It's all about perspective haha.
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Old 11-20-2012, 04:05 PM
 
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Well it shouldn't be irritated by that because it's a 80% chance of that happening since it's so many people online
so is it your contention that if there were less people online, you'd have a lower chance of running into flakes?
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Old 11-20-2012, 04:18 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Your next message should have been.........."Are you slightly retarded?"

LOL
Mocking the disabled is ALWAYS a good icebreaker.
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Old 11-20-2012, 04:22 PM
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so is it your contention that if there were less people online, you'd have a lower chance of running into flakes?

Probably, people are talking to 6 or 7 people at one time and will chose the best option. I scheduled a date with this girl for 12/1 and pretty sure it's a 85% chance we won't be going out because she will get many more offers between now and then and will send me a text or email saying

her mom is sick
her mom got hit by a bus
she is sick


Or may not say anything at all. I used to let flakes irritate me but I learned as I got older it's a waste of emotion...........................especially since I;m the one paying LOL
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Old 11-20-2012, 04:27 PM
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Mocking the disabled is ALWAYS a good icebreaker.

Ok well you could have said........"are you on medication?"
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